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Senevir t1_it70vj6 wrote

I was in a similar situation. Someone confessed to me, and even though I liked him too, my last relationship had been really bad. I wasn't sure how to be in one again, and told him that I wasn't ready. I was scared that this decision, my rejection of hin, would ultimately change our friendship dynamic, or he'd withdraw from me, but he didn't. He didn't change at all. Didn't treat me differently. Didn't push. A few months later, I initiated conversation with him, and we're together now.

It's scary. I was terrified of losing this person who made me laugh every day. It had a happened before. I think that if he is worth it, he will think that you are worth it, too. If it was meant to be, he will wait, and treat you kindly. First and foremost, you need to be ready and at peace with yourself.

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Krispyketchup42 t1_it70iys wrote

I told my ex I was gay but was actually trying to leave her for another girl, then this bitch starts saying "yeah I think you're gay too" like WTF bitch, I grew up with a single mom but I am not gay HAHA that backfired hard

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twotall88 t1_it6zxoe wrote

Life Pro Tip - don't lie to break up with someone, tell them it's not working out and you no longer want to see them.

If this becomes an issue of someone thinking you're lesbian then just say you made a naïve mistake as an easy out to breaking up with the guy.

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slaughterpuss25 t1_it6ypt8 wrote

Is that large of a dose really considered that extreme? I once ate that much on accident because my stupid ass got stoned and forgot I had bought more shrooms than usual and tried to eat the whole bag in one sitting. Only realized when I had made it through most of the bag. Tried to throw up to reduce the consequences of my mistake a bit. Ended up curled up naked in a ball in bed seeing all of human history repeat itself countless times and eventually ending up in the nexus of the universe, being torn apart on the molecular level by gods and entities beyond our understanding. Eventually "I" (by this point the concept of self wasnt really there anymore) realized the only way to escape the situation is to accept that it's happening and I came out of the trip a much less stressed out person over things I cannot control.

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Mabosaha t1_it6visu wrote

Its good to leave yourself a (short) loving, positive message that also states that you’re just tripping, ride it out.

Might sound strange perhaps to some people. But in my case, it really helps to get some grasp on what the heck is happening while deep in the trip :) make sure its positive! And big letters so you can read it haha

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