Im sorry but its gonna be reaaally hard to stay friends again. The weirdness is there, the awkwardness, no matter how much you both talk etc. If you guys end up together nice, but there will come a time you guys would break up.

You need a safe word.

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Your school sounds like a hillbilly shit show. If no one kicked your ass by second period you're probably fine.

Bro down bad

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You can't compare dogs to babies. Dogs are superior in every way to children. My dogs are super excited whenever I come home, they trip over themselves to be the first to rub against me.

My two year old daughter screams when she's tired and headbutts my girlfriend in the face.

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Cool beans. Be ready for a zinger when he figures it out then lol.

Just Talk to each other about what you want! A good relationship has three key components for the base: 1. Trust and Respect- this one is earned, it’s a two way street. 2. Communication- Talk to each other AND LISTEN! 3. Honesty- This building block will be the key to the first one! Just remember this and all will be well.

Is her bad behavior becoming more extreme because to increase the level of punishment because she needs more to satisfy her kink? This could turn into a runaway train, if you catch my meaning. Kind of like the old coke commercial...I do more coke so I can work more hours so I can make more money so I can do more coke so I can work more hours so I can make more money so I can do more coke..... Get out in front of this, soon, before things take a bad turn for both of you.

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Pics or it didn’t happen. Welcome to the internet.

They are kids. Kids are dumb sometimes. Let them be edgy as long as they grow out of it.

Plenty of people do way worse, like using slurs as comedy constantly. The issue was publicly displaying this edgyness, as it can become a dog whistle for actual racists and then it is no longer just kids messing around.

I say it was insensitive, but I understand why they thought it was funny; I hope they can learn from this and earn their respect back by being more sensitive in the future.

If she's saying she wants you to go hard on her because she feels genuinely guilty and she thinks she deserves it... Kinda sounds an awful lot like it's less of a kink thing and more of a "self harm via you" thing. You had her consent (sort of--no safe words is a bad plan always and inherently blurs the line between consent and no consent when things get intense), but even having consent doesn't mean that it can't still be harmful. Lots of people with trauma reenact it in ways like this, and while it can be fun and even healing if it's done properly, it can also 100% be very damaging and retraumatizing if it's not. Not saying that's her situation, but I wouldn't rule it out. Y'all really need to talk about this stuff.

He's fine. He knows I love him. Knows it was just a joke. Just likes having a reason to play mad.

Was he being pushy about it or no? You say you felt weird about it but did you express that in anyway at the time? This is important because it tells us if he is being a bit manipulative. If nothing like that was going on, it’s probably just a bit awkward between you atm. Also there is no reason you can’t date this guy. This whole ‘don’t date a friend’ mindset is nonsense. A lot of life long relationships start as good friends.

Don’t even have to read it to know what happened. Classic subway moment.

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I was talking about my wiener dog Annabelle with my son's teacher. She says "Awwwww. Your wiener dog's name is Annabelle? My daughter's name is Annabelle!" I wasn't really sure what to say to that. Luckily, her son came running up and interrupted us and I was able to sneak away.

Your sister is aboslutely allowed to watch it herself in her own time, and now watch it with the family. If she wants to watch it herself because she prefers to watch it in silence and to watch the intro, that's fine too.

It's also totally fine for her to share that opinion with the family.

If you and your parents prefer skipping the intro and to discuss it to explain things while it is on, that's fine too.

But your sister is rude to raise her voice or get annoyed at the rest of you watching it differently.

You are both in a learning curve. Do not hide feelings and be brutally honest. Being completely vulnerable and expressing oneself is the only way to have a successful dom/sub relationship.

ROFL. That is honestly hilarious. He will probably be mad till he comes up with a good zinger. My mom and I would do that sometimes. But it doesn't hurt to make sure he is ok.

Your user name indicates you like golden showers but spanking is a bridge too far? 😏

>But I feel like my father resents me

If I was to be extremely, undeservedly charitable, I'd say he perhaps thinks you responsible for his wife's death and treats you accordingly (as irrational and unjustified as that is). Considering how misogynistic he is though, it's more likely he just resents that you can't fully replace the bangmaid he lost.

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>Yes I’ve considered running away, but, as much as I hate them, I don’t think I could actually stand being alone.

I'm not sure what your options are -- and I certainly wouldn't advocate being homeless -- but in my experience, it is far better to be alone than around people who make you wish you were. Stay safe.

Wow. Fast food only twice a year? That’s ridiculous. You’re not asking for fogo de chow, it’s fast food, some of the cheapest food available.