Because she still relies on them for her survival for a few more years?

All these people downvoting her for not retaliating need to realize that she still has to live with this people for at least 2-3 years at minimum.

It's only as werid as you make it. I've slept with a few of my close friends and years later we're all still friends.

I think open and honest communication is best.. For sure write down what you want to say before you say it. You sound young and there's a good possibility of miscommunication.

You also mentioned that it's the first time doing that. Part of the weridness could be that you rushed in without fully knowing your feelings for him. Take a night and think about it. When you picture the two of you together hanging out going to a movie or laughing at random dumb stuff, are you happy? Do you feel a dumb grin across your face thinking about him? Do you feel the warmth in you? If not then you can always just talk about it and try to stay friends.

It might be smart to not wait too long though, incase the ex comes back, that'll be a bit of heart break and confusion.

Nicotine is a helluva drug...

Dudes a creep. 32!??

Sigh... Where do we begin with this one?

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Not my monkeys, not my circus and not my problem. However the clowns are fucking familiar.

You're a 40 year old man, aren't you?

I agree completely. It's one thing to get spanked as role play but it's another if she says she deserved it in all seriousness. There may be a psychological reason behind her behaviour that you should talk about.

Oh no! Don't clog your shower now! ;)

Honey, I hate to break it to you, family does not do this. They don't neglect you, nor allow literally theft.

I am so, so sorry.

average sibling relationship

This is why I hate these kinds of relationships. Once you cross their line, there is no turning back. Too fine a line between BDSM and a domestic abuse relationship. She can now send your ass to prison since she decided your crossed the line. Better to just avoid these. However, if not, get documentation like texts that proves she has been asking to be punished that hard. Don’t feel guilty about this. She’s the one asking for it. You made a mistake you didn’t know about. If she set no limitations, she should apologize. Only she knows her pain tolerance. She needs to make you aware of that.

Negative one word: Hey, who stole my ?

Negative two words: You'll never catch, .

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First fapworthy TIFU of the day not a bad start

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FYI, you need to buy a new wax ring for there the floor pipe and toilet pipe meet. They cannot be reused and it's only a matter of time before the toilet starts leaking waste into the floor/ceiling below.

LMFAO

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Take his console and sell it for 150 bucks.

Also I don't think fortnight costs that much. Your mum might have the change.

TIFU by bullying my loner brother till he killed himself.

We've already established this is not stealing. It's finding.

This is how rapists are made. Ie no repercussions when they do something wrong. This is disgusting.

Don't be silly. Take mom's cash. She's the one who set the rule. Make her see why it's a dumb rule.

It really isn’t. You could start with a phone call to the police. I mean, people are throwing solutions at you in this thread, you know the players better than us and how they would react to each. Making a police statement really isn’t much work. The overriding issue is what the impact will be on family dynamics and whether there will be any retaliation. But also, don’t let people walk all over you either. Present reasonable solutions to your parents, and then the worst case solution. But make sure people know they can’t walk all over you, especially in your own home! Silent treatment isn’t working, trying an alternative. Best of luck!