Recent comments in /f/tifu

doctoremicat t1_j6m4q92 wrote

He’s too old for you and is taking advantage. You might be 18, but as you acknowledged he’s lived a whole life and it seems to me he’s interested in the sex and you are interested in something more. With your issues (that I fully relate to) I think you should cut this guy. Cold turkey. I doubt he’s going to realize an 18 year old is the relatable love of his life and choose you. You deserve someone who’s more relatable to where you are in life and a relationship without unequal power dynamic.

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minitaba t1_j6m4mlg wrote

Wtf you are a teenager! I am 31 now and cant even imagine having a relationship or even just sex with a teen at all. This dude is a creep and you really should get over your addiction

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neutrino71 t1_j6m4kzu wrote

Being a citizen in a civilized society involves engagement in the social contract. Your brother and mother seem keen to return to pre-law anarchy of some kind. If finders are keepers where does it end? If she leaves her car keys out is the car now yours? Can you sell her silverware if she doesn't lock it up?

I do understand your desire to not rock the boat and your safest option is to begin planning for your exit from this environment. Unfortunately their are plenty more unscrupulous people who will not hesitate to take your things so be careful who you trust.

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DieselWins t1_j6m3x5z wrote

By not presenting solutions to get your money back and not telling your parents it's time to compensate and not filing a police report, you and your sister are enabling his theft and letting him know that he can get away with it in the future. If you're willing to be sneaky, your next best revenge is to delete his Fortnite account. You may need a security code for this. That would hit him HARD if he's like any of the Fortnite players I know. Your mother is actively causing trauma to you and your sister. Stand up for yourself and your sister and do something about it.

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Sinelas t1_j6m3n9o wrote

Because statistically, two thirds of romantic relationships start as long-term friendship.

Source : https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/19485506211026992

Of course everyone has a different story, but this many downvotes just show that acting like his own story is how it works for everyone is a mistake.

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Shadowlance23 t1_j6m3bju wrote

There is so much FU here that i feel this should be split into multiple posts, but to sum it up I'll just say it's not to late to fix this if you get out NOW. Even if he's a nice enough guy (who leaves but doesn't know when he's getting back?), there's clearly alot of toxic stuff here and nothing good will come of you trying to stick with him.

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Titariia t1_j6m3786 wrote

May aunts neighbour has a dog called Ben and one called Mia, so apparently they can't remember names that are longer than 3 letters. Best thing is, they had a baby. They called the baby Ben. Dog Ben was still around. So apparently with age memory isn't the best anymore, remembering 3 letters is getting harder and harder, so they just stick to the names they already know.

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