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Fair-Ninja7691 t1_j6m6b74 wrote

Tbh, this is neglect and psychological abuse. Instead of trying to get revenge, go to your school counselor or another teacher you trust. Tell them the story, and get the help you deserve. This is an awful situation and instead of trying to fight back, spare that energy and take care of yourself and your sister. Fighting back sounds great and people love revenge (me included), but you won’t get anything out of it. It’s clear that your mother and stepdad will make your life (and your sisters’) even harder after that. It’s just not worth it. What IS worth it though, is making sure you are going to be okay. In 5 years, you probably won’t be speaking to them (even if you can’t imagine it right now, you will grow up and realize your life will never be great with them in it). Hiding his controller won’t make you feel better in 5 years. Taking care of yourself and being proud to look back at how you took care of it with the help of a trusted adult, will make you happier.

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chocolate_milk_dude t1_j6m5pw7 wrote

I think that's a mental thing. You're young and in love, and you're going to think about him often, that is just what happens. Scent, as you know, is closely tied to memory so smelling cigarettes might trigger you to think of him, but I don't believe that you got yourself addicted to nicotine from secondhand smoke or kissing him.

PS: Stay focused on school and yourself, you're young and so is this relationship.

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rrfe t1_j6m4z2h wrote

I was with a friend at a steakhouse in the 2000s, who was trying to be suave. The bald-headed waiter took our order, and he said “thanks my man” as they left the table.

The waitress was a female. She didn’t serve us for the rest of the evening.

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__babyslaughter__ t1_j6m4wxy wrote

Girl everything about this story is bad. The nicotine is the least of it.

I hope you’re seeking treatment for the BPD though. It’s really important to manage that, talk to a therapist regularly who is knowledgeable etc

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