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440mag t1_j6m910s wrote

The comments about addressing it with the alleged adults are good, give them a chance to pay for the kids crime spree. If not willing, then have sister call the cops. Yes you will more than likely experience retaliation but this is a HUGE lesson building moment for everyone! Girls, this will define you, your tolerance and standing up for yourselves. The boy needs a little (lots) of tough love. Mommy not goin' do it. Mommy & SDaddy, either deal with your little thieving spoiled child or its going to bite you later. Good luck girls! You"ll get nervous, just walk through it with each other before & back each other. Adrenaline is the BEST!

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thebluemorpha t1_j6m8uno wrote

I seriously doubt his smoking habit has anything to do with your addiction to him, it's the thrills and feel goods you get from him, but you gotta keep it together! You know you have mental health issues and becoming obsessed with a partner is never good for anyone, don't go all in on this, live your life for you, and try to think of your thing with him like an amusement park, it's super fun to go to every once in a while, but you can never live there.

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hephaistos070 t1_j6m7vix wrote

Reading your story and the comments and I really don't get this. "finders keepers"?? In your own home/room? WHAT?? That is theft. clear and simple. You need to fight back!! But reading your replies I am sure you won't. I don't understand why. You are scared I guess. But that is not a reason not to fight. Go to the police, sell all his stuff, do something!! Or you will be pushed over by everyone for anything. Stand up for yourself girl! Good luck

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SuperBobPlays t1_j6m7llm wrote

Report his fortnite account for stream sniping or inappropriate behavior... Likely he's doing something dumb or being obnoxious knowing his behavior.

Another option could be just changing his accounts password. He resets it, you reset it... Rinse and repeat.

And one more thing to just inconvenience him and be petty... Start hiding trash or rotting food under his bed or in his closet. Also, if he's got chores, make it a point to find a way to reverse them... He's washing dishes? Smear food on the clean ones. Gotta sweep the hallway? Sweep the garage and dump it in the hallway. Be malicious, but enough to wear it's clearly deniable.

It sucks, but what you have is an entitled mother/brother and an enabling step-dad... Most you can do is tell the step dad in passing that you and your sister were trying to get passes for all 3 children, as a surprise. But at this point, now it's best to just save up for a better getaway... An apartment down-payment.

Keep money in your own savings account. Away from the house. Make it to where it is purely a savings, and the card can't be used outside of a bank/atm. If your parents have a problem with that, then tell them it's for college. They can't say no to that.

And if they do... It's time to go with malicious compliance... I can't have money? No need to go to college. I can't have any personal space? Cool then I guess I'll move out as soon as I'm 18.

Either way, when you're older, cut contact... Don't visit, and if you do, make it to where you stay in a hotel or with friends... Trust me... The my house/my rules and my baby boy bs is never going away... He'll be 40 still living at home while mommy spoils him on hand and foot and asking you for help as much as you allow it. Eventually step-dad might see reason and book it. But honestly? Don't get your hopes up.

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axebodyspraytester t1_j6m7i12 wrote

Same thing happened to me once. I was late for work and as I jumped off the bus my belt loop snagged a hand rail and ripped the front right side of my pants right off. I was going commando as well I picked up the front of my pants leg and ran to my office and I had to ask a girl I worked with to take me to buy some pants. She was really sweet about it and didn't tell anyone about it but she did get a peek at the goods. She said I really shouldn't go to work commando like that .

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i_need_a_username201 t1_j6m7cal wrote

The people telling you not to sweat it are misguided. I’d be LIVID and classify you as “One of those people.” Everyone doesn’t have the same view on dogs as you. But then some wipes or something to make amends.

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Imagine_Reality25 t1_j6m77lx wrote

You were a girl, then you were sure you were a boy and now a girl again? This post plus your previous post really show you have some mental health problems you need to work out. Find yourself first and do not be taken advantage off by a 32yo creep

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