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carljohnson0690 t1_it7uy8r wrote

Happened to me. Had a really really bad trip. Few months later felt I was ready same deal. Tried a 3rd time few months later and again a bad trip. So I'm done. Probably for life. They helped me quit drinking and helped the way I view life. I think my body said it's good now. Doesn't need them anymore.

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GhostNinja1373 t1_it7utpd wrote

To bad many people never understand this or are scared to get into that relationship due to their past or what ever.

I know it has happened to me and it leads to regrets which is always the worse feeling and staying a "what if" and what if that would have turned into a fun relationship and not just stay a friendship?

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GhostNinja1373 t1_it7uh2g wrote

To me when that happens it means you missed the signals and that you are in denial of liking the other person after all.

Somethings we auto do this or as they call it "self sabatoge"(typo?)

I say reach out to him to see how hes doing and if hes still single and to ask him on a date since its in your court now.

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SakarPhone t1_it7t1he wrote

Preface: I do get where you are coming from. I have wrestled with these exact questions at some point in my walk with God. End preface.

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What scripture exactly are you referring to? The stoning of the man for gathering sticks on the Sabbath, after he was instructed by God to not do so? I wouldn't consider blatant disregard for God's laws as innocent.

Our God is in heaven; he does whatever pleases him. Psalms 115:3

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The Bible says that you break one law, you are guilty of breaking them all. Disobedience is disobedience.

For whosoever shall keep the whole law, and yet offend in one point, he is guilty of all. James 2:10

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Lucky for us, we also have Galatians 1:4

Jesus gave his life for our sins, just as God our Father planned, in order to rescue us from this evil world in which we live.

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Also, God may have used that man as an example. Think about it, there was not any law in the land up until that era. Laws from God were essentially brand new to these people.

Imagine you have thousands of soldiers under your command, soldiers that are not accustomed to being told what to do, and you put out some rules to follow, and immediately afterwards someone blatantly and publicly breaks a very, very clear rule. You have to lower the boom on him, and he would not be innocent.

Plus, we have no idea what was going on in that man's heart, what he said to justify his blatant disregard for God's law. Also, God may have even knew that that guy was going to do that before he even did it - He may have been planning it out long before time even came into existence (Romans 9:18-23)

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Creating an idea of who God should be is called idolatry. It's creating a false image of God in our minds. God is who He is, not who we think He should be, and that's that, because God is not going to change. He is who He is. I am just glad that we have a loving God who practices and delights in loving kindness, righteousness, and justice (Jeremiah 9:24). This doesn't mean that He should not also be greatly feared. God is love, yes, but He is also the all powerful creator of everything you have or will ever experience - including yourself.

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Mrs_Peabody t1_it7srf9 wrote

I’ve taken 7g once, intending to go for a walk in the woods, but all my husband and I were capable of was moaning and sensual writhing in bed with closed eyes. Very intense, but because we’re familiar with the effects of psychedelics it didn’t freak us out. After the intense peak (maybe a couple hours after), we did leave the bed and continued to have a beautiful trip. It’s not an amount I’d take and expect to do any kind of activity or social thing for sure. I may or may not take that much again.

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capoderra t1_it7slb8 wrote

So this can happen if you are used to eating fresh shrooms and then suddenly take dried shrooms. 6 grams of fresh is between a microdose and a low dose. 6 grams of DRIED is a super high dose, enough to trip 6-8 hours and completely lose yourself. You should really be checking a dose calculator (Google it), and you need to know what species your supplier is giving you. Your supplier can tell you, but obviously people are fallible so do a cross check.

Also, it's necessary to take breaks between trips depending on your objective. I'm not a recreational user, but you need to take time off between dosing.

Finally, there's so much info online. Research "set and setting". There's lemon tech. Inform yourself.

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id_death t1_it7qrav wrote

Look, this all seems pretty juvenile on both sides.

>Even this happened in the worst possible way, with her having to prod me after an uncomfortable silence.

So she's making fun of the lack of experience of a guy who is supposedly a virgin and youre sitting there quietly seething thinking "fuck this girl, I've HAD sex before", but you dont want to tell her because youll blow your chance to....marry her? Because you know if she's seriously there's NO way she's gonna do it before marriage.

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[deleted] OP t1_it7q6dw wrote

Thank you, I'll try to be more open minded. I really don't want to break up with my family, but your right, I can't lie to myself, it's stupid. I'll try looking at things like my sexuality with a better attitude. Idk what it is for now but I'll accept when I do learn what it is.

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