You don’t have to “go to court”. Just go to the address on the ticket and pay the fine.

when we had nothing between us we used to talk a lot at night till 3 am, recently i helped her with college stuff, i was there whenever she could been in trouble. i went out of my way to make sure she doesnt miss on important stuff going in our college, and even to extent of parcelling her some stuff of college. none of her other frnds even asked her or tried to help her

I genuinely hope my children will be immature when they're kids so that they can be actually mature as adults and not just faking maturity their whole lives, confusing safety for wisdom.

The present is always rotting.

Sometimes when there are people I can't stand, I imagine how overjoyed I'd be to see them if I had lived on an alien freightliner for 20 years without seeing another human, and then one day we roll into port and I'm unloading containers of plasma coils and there's that person I hate, eating a bowl of grosh wurms and looking lonely.

speed

I think one of the hardest things about communicating with young people is they don't understand just how much having regrets hurts.

Yes you do. You're just afraid to do it because you're young and you think a life without mistakes is better than a life with mistakes.

You're wrong though. Mistakes are how we improve. Your platonic friendship, that innocent period before your mutual attraction became conscious, is over.

Antifreeze. Getting ready for winter.

Relate to what?

I'm 39 (going on 40) and know all sorts of shit because I acted out my idiocy when I was younger.

Acting mature is overrated in the immature.

The only problem is, young people are supposed to be immature not mature. And if they never do the immature things, they never develop the experience that actually matures them.

Making no mistakes at age 19 is a huge mistake.

You will be surprised how pleasant experience it can be with low doses or to ease the come up in medium doses.. didn't try it myself but on high doses it is indeed sounds impossible or really unpleasant

Thank you, Captain Grammar!

Yeah we aren't that serious she's a little attached

💋 Mwah

No offense, but your GF sounds like an idiot. Dump her, you don’t want to be married to someone that thought this was a good idea.

Damn, that last sentence got me. I'm 31, back at college, and have never felt more alone in my life

Ngl I’m a little confused about you living together for months without having sex...just wondering if there’s a specific reason why you’ve never done it together.

I wish I were mature enough to "communicate" when I was 18.

It's not exactly related to your situation but my best advice going forward is to never date someone from your friend pool. If you are interested in someone you meet, let them know that from the start. Transitioning from friend to something more almost always shakes out to be a dramatic nightmare.

Don't be afraid to approach someone you are interested in, you don't have to wait for them to make the first move as long as you are open and respectful.

Honesty and communication beats the hell out of the emotional game-playing you see so much with people in their teens and 20s. You sound like you've got a good start on it and that really is the key to every good relationship.

I think both of your feelings about it are very understandable. The sad part of it is that she obviously really wanted your first time together to be special, and now she’s kind of forfeited that opportunity. She’s gotta learn to make it more clear to people what she wants in a relationship, or learn that she doesn’t have to be your first to be your best, and for it to be special. Is she waiting for marriage, or was she just waiting to be together longer before having sex?

When you get the message hang up the phone, as they say

>"family dog AND underage neighbour are in on the fun at the same time"

That was just the opening credits.

Who knew that sunflower seeds and super glue were turnons....

Time dilation is the name for it.

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