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-Rosetta_Stoned- t1_iti7ear wrote

Being “weird” just means you’re different than the majority of boring average people. You don’t fit in with the masses and that’s a good thing overall. Yes, it can def feel alienating at times. I know how it is to be more of an introvert, yet still feel lonely, misunderstood, n unable to form deep connections. Imagine being content to just follow all the other sheep tho. Yuck!

Try to focus on the quality of a select few interpersonal relationships rather than to be accepted by all. Also, maybe it has to do with the area of the world you live in? For example, I’m a native Californian near LA. I feel as if I don’t fit in lots of places in the US because of how idgaf my views are. Out here it’s cool to be laid back, with some rather obscure interests. A visually interesting wardrobe is a must. Toned down is not in my vocab, but that’s ok. I fit in here precisely because of my idiosyncrasies.

The key is to work on your self confidence and be positive about who you are n what you like. People gravitate toward those who love themselves 💓🤓

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laplongejr t1_ithyq0g wrote

Well, it is a question of control. An anticheat, by definition, is a software that needs to strip control from the user to give it to its developer.
A software bundled with a malicious piece of code to "strip control from the user to give it to its developer" is the practical definition of a rootkit.

So it depends on what is or isn't malicious, but computers don't care about that.

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benao t1_ithwbid wrote

Well, your relationship with that sister of yours is over. She lifted a knife at you. Contact the cops. Simple as that. As for your life from now on, be positive. It won't be worse than your current. It will be hard though, but staying you'd either die or forced to kill someone in the near future. Better to call the cops and get it sorted out NOW.

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purduephotog t1_ithq5rf wrote

*laugh*

That's been my experience with poorly marked CC courses. My personal favorite was around some trees- and the runner in front of me had grabbed onto a branch and let go- so it whipped into my face and knocked me down (Startlement helped as well as exhaustion).

I gave up that race and didn't finish.

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Aurielie_ OP t1_ithjey2 wrote

It's definitely one of my small things I aspire toward. While I'm indifferent or at least not that impassioned about the products we sell, I think understanding the person with 3x less of your paygrade is imperative to having your whole business model not fall apart

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eresh22 t1_ithhhla wrote

I've ended up business-friendly with a couple of my CEOs because I wasn't afraid to tell them what I really think, but it always scared my supervisors when I did. I'm cringing imagining your mountain. I've definitely been buried under that.

I think I helped them stay connected to the people when they were talking numbers. Factoring in people can changes your whole approach a situation. It sounds like you already have the respect of at least one of the boneheads. Hopefully you'll be able to help keep them connected to the people aspect of the business.

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Nosedominance t1_ith7dud wrote

Don't feel bad--I remember one cross country regional race where one team had a lot of really good runners and everyone expected them to win. However, the girl in front made a wrong turn and the next 5 or so girls followed. By the time they all figured it out they were too far behind, and the second best team had won (because most of them didn't get lost). Girls were crying, it was sad.

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laplongejr t1_itgsz8j wrote

The simple fact your ex decided to out you on what they thought your sexuality makes it an asshole.
My wife discovered she is heavily on the lesbian part of the spectrum, and that doesn't allow me to out her in her place.

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laplongejr t1_itgr7w7 wrote

I think she REALLY hid something and recated instinctively, so when he asked she made up "wedding ring".
She wouldn't start by saying "something personal" if it was something he meant to find, in her place I would've said "shiny" or "gift"

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