It’s unlikely as he said ICT typically pull the hard drives for destruction. If he knows they normally keep drives for secure destruction then he should know not to take a device that has drives. If that is the case then OP is negligent and should be punished for his actions/crime. He may also be sued for theft of intellectual property if the drives had any data on them, and destruction of intellectual property if he wiped them.

If it’s just a chassis with no drives, and ICT we’re keeping it because it was too good to bin, or it had rare hardware they might require later, then it is not such a big deal.

I think OP needs a lawyer as he may very well be in legal trouble if caught.

r/iamtheasshole

If what you're saying is true, and you do have 'feelings' for this person, perhaps stop thinking about your 'feelings' and stop and think about theirs? Would contacting her benefit her or you? And in what way? Are you telling yourself that by being back in her life, that you could somehow improve it? Seems a little pretentious if so.

Also, why is attractiveness mentioned here at all?

A year? Do you think interrupting whatever she has going on right now is right for her?

Her father is right...

You don't need anything to get into Mexico, you just drive right in.

Well i had a big diner but if you have people who like to dance they are gonna get hungry. My late night snack needed to be filled for the third time and we had three kinds of snacks. (And yes i had one for everyone but still thy wanted more because they liked it haha)

The best relationship advice I could give you is "the grass is greener where you water it". If you're looking over the fence all the time you will fuck up every relationship you're ever in and burn more girls like you already have.

For a lot of failed relationships the problem is not that you're with the wrong person but that one or both of you have stopped investing in each other.

Go your own way man. Leave her alone. You fucked shit up once.

If you were really interested in Girl 1 you would have never entertained Girl 2

Well i agree . The fancy diner stuff you can do together but when a wedding day comes you make sure your guest are ALL liking it, that nobody leaves hungry and that there are drinks going around all the time. My only big rule was on my wedding ...nobody gets to be hungry or thirsty. I made sure the whole day there was small things to eat, enough cake, ebough drinks and when diner came everyone had pre chosen their meal. (Meat/fish/chicken or vegetarian). It's got nothing to do with conservative it has everything to do to Celebrate with your loved ones and making sure they love the day. Believe me you won't like if people talk about your wedding bad afterwards and they will do that when the food not good. People still talk bad about my uncle's marriage because we went to the Chinees afterwards as everyone was hungry 🤣🤣

When my daughter was 16, ex needed a break fair enough. Sent my kid by herself, had to show that I had full custody, so went through the headache. Daughter went back a few months later no hassles. That was alone true, and 16 but still had to have the paperwork

Fix it by growing up and stop being shallow. Sound like perhaps you're not ready for serious relationships yer

I think we’d honestly need more information about the way that you both coparent to form an opinion here. It sounds like she’s currently got custody or the child is under her watch at the time. I don’t have children so I don’t know but why would she need to take him if she’s currently watching him and (possibly) currently coparenting without issues. Has she tried to withhold visits in the past?

If this being served, I'd respectfully ask the bride and bride if I could lend a hand and then kick in the door 45 minutes later with giant buckets of KFC to save the day. If the father in law wants to leave stuffed, he shall leave stuffed, goddammit.

Consider the KFC an extra wedding gift on me xD

He didn't just think about someone else. He indulged a crush on firm 2 to the point where he decided he had to date her. He was obsessed with her to the point he dumped girl 1 to explore and date girl 2. And clearly it was a stupid decision and they were incompatible since they broke up a week later.

That is not appropriate behaviour in a relationship.

It sounds like you're 14.

You treated girl 1 really badly for a very shallow reason. "I'm dumping you right before Valentine's Day for another girl." You should feel like an ass because you were one. The fact that you don't see how hurt and pissed she'll be and think you can go right back and say "my bad" shows you haven't matured or thought about how your actions have consequences for others and yourself. Accept the consequences that you blew it and learn from that so you don't do it again.

You are too immature to date. Given the only think you things- worth mentioning about wither of these women is how hot you found them, you dint really deserve to date either.

If you broke up with hurl 1 to be with girl 2? She was not for you. If you loved or respected her at the time, then you would not have so easily run after another woman.

You fix this by leaving both women alone and working on yourself before you inflict yourself on the next woman. Treating people you date as if they are shoes that you are comparing or trying on for size is not ok.

You dumped girl 1 a year ago. She's probably long over you and us likely dating someone else. She certainly wont be happy with you knowing that you dumped her for another woman. Sorry but that's not the kind if thing a relationship can come back from.

Did this with cauliflower about 8 years ago. I can still remember the smell and have hardly cooked cauliflower since!

Take your meds

People overstay visas all the time.

That makes sense for an intact marriage, but not when you are divorced. It poses a different set of concerns then.

I mean.

The only thing worth mentioning about the first girl was that she was hot, apparently. OP literally made a point of pointing out that this other girl is not as hot as the first girl without a single other mention of issues with the first girl or their relationship, but their attractiveness is apparently the one thing worth noting about either of them in OP's eyes, so Idk what else to assume other than it being some kind of emotional attachment to the other girl that drove him to break up with the first. Like I said, emotional cheating may very well not be the exact term, but in the moment I couldn't think of something that conveyed the issue better.

She's probably moved on.

You're too immature for anything serious. Move on - have fun for a few years until you're mature enough for a relationship

Emotionally cheating? So thinking about someone else is cheating? Everybody does that