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Like I'm gonna say no to Ali Larter 😅

Prenuptials my friends!

Perhaps we just feel differently about marriage.

Why you always lyyinggg

She said that it was a comment made in jest. I guess unless she decides to give us more context with his behaviour and her thoughts on it, we won’t know. Otherwise, yeah, both insecure.

I think it all depends on the relationship. If when two people start dating, they have kids or are older, they may be inclined to get married quicker. Younger people are more likely to wait until they are 27-29 to get married. But as long as each partner is consenting, and there’s a healthy happy relationship there, I don’t think it’s up to outsiders to decide if marriage is right for them. I am realistic in that I know how important it is to consider all factors including that marriage is a binding contract. Divorce is ugly. Premarital counseling is important.

Do you not have some tuna or chicken? Or fish?

I'm completely fine with my wife getting a lap dance. It doesn't hurt anyone and she enjoys it. In fact, I watched her get one once.

All in good fun.

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In what mental gymnastics world would you be fine with the idea of your partner getting sexually danced on by someone (that most likely will look far more attractive than you) of the opposite sex?

The harm is going against what ops partner wants, potentially causing a rift in their relationship.

Jeah, lame ass story

Thank you for sharing, and I’m happy to hear you’re in a great relationship.

It’s not that I value marriage above all else in our relationship. Being together, caring about each other, and showing each other love in little ways are important. But it is something I would eventually want. It’s the ultimate commitment.

Yeah, I stick things up my ass for fun, and am fine falling asleep with said toy in my ass and waking up an hour or 2 later and using it again. Your butt does not self lubricate and nothing you use as a lubricant will still be there later.

Point being, your body will make you painfully aware that you have a dry item with a flared bottom in Your rectal cavity.

“The smell filled the room” small room or you need to asses your diet bröther. This story reeks of cap

If it makes you feel better, there’s a bidet company that exists and it’s called tushy. I went to the search bar to type in tushy.com instead of the actual bidet website that is buytushy.com lol. It was butt stuff.

I think that’s a bit presumptuous. We are happy together and this is the most stable, healthy relationship I’ve ever been in and I do take marriage seriously. Your comment sounds like you believe I’m naive, have been reading the wrong side of the internet, or you’ve had a bitter divorce yourself.

Thaaks for the good laugh

I don’t think that’s necessarily the case. Plenty of marriages are full of unhappy people, so it’s not as if I believe getting married automatically means a fairytale ending. But knowing what wanting to marry someone feels like, I just want him to be capable of feeling that way towards me, even if not now, in the future. It upset me so because I love him. I plan to talk to him again tonight.

Double entendre?

So you didn't drive, or open doors, or put on shoes, or check your phone?

What's the difference? What exactly is the harm in a lap dance?

He comforted me last night without knowing why I was crying and the way he was so kind and loving reminded me why I love him. I’d take all the wonderful things he is than risk it all in a gamble again. Thank you.

I don't see a problem with that? Just because you are married suddenly means you're not allowed to look at or be sexually turned on by other people? Seems pretty controlling to me.

We poor as fuck my friend, the only thing worse than putting a 30 year old into debt is putting a 55 year old into debt haha