I hope she does

Relax she isn’t leaving me

Succinctly summed up all our immediate reactions to reading this.

Grow up and take your relationship seriously. She does. Your disrespect for her is terrible.

Idk you’ve never just not had an appropriate time to bring something up and then it just went so long it became awkward?

I know for a fact most of those manufacturers only want picture proof since Covid hit.

I hope your girl leaves you and finds someone who sees relationships as relationships.

I’m guessing you don’t understand what analogies are.

It won't strengthen it, it'll just tell all of the other vibes to rise up

Just make sure you don't use a file as a vibe like in that one TIFU

I feel like I misunderstand alot of things in very similar ways. I take everything wayyy too literally so I genuinely feel like this is a mistake I would make. Kudos for having the cajones to call him back and explain yourself. I would just take the L and think about it every night for 10 years, probably waking up in cold sweats thinking to myself "Why didnt I just pet the damn dog?".

Still!

I read your original post and felt like you both made honest mistakes and weren't trying to hurt anyone. I'm very glad to read that you both have admitted and realized the same thing about your own and each other's mistakes, and are going to try to work it out. Just remember: it's OK if it doesn't work out. I hope it does, and I can easily see how it would since now you both will be working actively at building trust and communication with each other, intentionally, to specifically avoid another such situation (plus, therapy). I just want to point out: "It is possible to commit no mistakes and still lose. That is not weakness, that is life.”― Jean-Luc Picard. The important thing is that you're not giving up now, at the start, when not quitting matters very much, maybe the most, because this is when your investment is lowest, and the losses to cut smallest. Keep working, and if you believe in the future of the relationship, choose the relationship and the future as much as you can without compromising your integrity or safety.

Agree. Maybe it wont bring him back but at least you'll get to tell your story and he'll get the explanation he deserved.

Hahahaha this was hilarious, your parents will never let you forget this....Omg I was in tears lmfao

I didn’t think she could hear me

I didn’t read all this but have you tried turning you inner filter on?

That’s the joke in our friend group,

winning a championship is = sleeping with a girl

Winning a game = when she agrees to go out with you

3 peat - getting a three someone or 3 girls 3 days in a row

3 pointer = 3 dates in 1 day

Championship player = whoever pulls the most

1st overall pick = the player of the friend group

And so on

Honestly I’ve gotten home from the laundromat and realized that I accidentally took someone else’s stuff and had to embarrassingly return it. I hope the same thing happens to u and it’s returned

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>dating is like basketball

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You think it's normal to talk about how your late husband killed himself and that's how your previous relationship ended is a normal thing? There's nothing logical about that, only pain and only masochists like pain. I doubt he's a masochist.

Honoring someone by celebrating what they enjoyed to talking about them are two different things too.

Dumbass

what

When I was in high school, I had a cough that hurt so bad that every time I coughed or sneezed I literally screamed in agony. So I started holding in the cough like a fool.

After a day of this I was having trouble breathing so I finally let myself cough. It was the most disgusting loud gurgling bark. I horked up an entire mouthful of phlegm and blood. Scabrous and green.

Suddenly, after the agony died down, I felt so much better. I probably should have gone to the hospital because I definitely had pneumonia but I figured, if it was coming out, there wasn't much they could do for a viral lung infection. It worked.

I was back at school the next day with a trash can sitting next to me to spit my green lung butter out. One teacher complained but the class had my back and told her to leave me alone so she did.

Apparently I grew up in a different time, I don't think I'd get away with that now.

Makes sense. I haven't really lost anyone serious in my life, but you do have to eventually move on. Talking about it with a loved one might even help with that. And she also mentioned in previous thread, that they hold a memorial every year for him, that's what caused this. So aren't totally forgetting about him in that way either.