Recent comments in /f/tifu

Odd_Ad_5639 OP t1_jad62jn wrote

Reply to comment by bsuvo in TIFU by cheating on my wife a second time by Odd_Ad_5639

You have every reason to not believe me but I will regret what I have done until I die.

My wife means a lot to me, so I am extremely ashamed about how I have treated her.

Taking custody of my daughter isn’t the right thing by her but I believe it is the best for my daughter, all things considered (even though I did cheat and cause this situation)

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Ihavenoidea84 t1_jad61ec wrote

Reply to TIFU by asking my dad to switch TV Providers. by Advanced_Bad4443

Let me introduce you to a vpn and a go's spoofer. First, sign up for a Google account on your phone whilst spoofing your location to Boston. Use it to set your home location. Then get a vpn, surf shark has a Boston location. Roku and Google TV both have surf shark app. Vpn yourself to Boston. Sign in.
Wallah.

I've done this for years to watch the Pats while moving around the country

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Thisisthatguy99 t1_jad5og7 wrote

Reply to comment by Odd_Ad_5639 in TIFU by cheating on my wife a second time by Odd_Ad_5639

You believe that because you are hurt and scared of losing your daughter, so your emotions are affecting rational thought, and you are lying to yourself and everyone here. The difference is we can see it cause we are on the outside with no emotional connection.

Take your daughter, let your daughter move on and have a better life with her mom…. It has no affect on everyone else here so we can let logic guide us. You already hurt and will be losing the people you love, so you can’t think clearly and are just telling yourself what you want to hear to try and rationalize your feelings.

You’ve proven who you are as a human. Therapy or not, that’s who you are. The best thing for your daughter is to let her stay with her mother who you already admit gives her better emotional care, something she’ll need as her family is broken apart because of your actions.

The best you can hope for is to offer the mom whatever financial support she seems fair if she is willing to stay local so you can stay close to your daughter. I’m talking over and above alimony and child support. And you just accept that as penance and be thankful if she accepts.

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CelebrationSevere199 t1_jad5nd8 wrote

Reply to TIFU by cheating on my wife a second time by Odd_Ad_5639

You've made bad decisions no need for us to beat yourself up anymore than you have. You have got to work on yourself and maintain a presence in your child's life. There's no amend to be made with your wife, fact is the child is better off with both of you even if it's 50-50. So figure it out.

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Odd_Ad_5639 OP t1_jad58gr wrote

Reply to comment by Ocean_Spice in TIFU by cheating on my wife a second time by Odd_Ad_5639

I can’t take back anything I’ve done. I will regret it until I die. Nobody will be ever believe me (and I can’t blame them) but I love my daughter very much and I would take good care of her.

I hate that it will hurt my wife but I honestly believe I can give a better upbringing than my wife all things considered.

There will be hurt and turmoil. I will be to blame. My shame is eternal

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laplongejr t1_jad4jpl wrote

Reply to comment by Csherman92 in TIFU by giving away a seat that wasn’t mine. by tomfoolery77

> It's selfish and entitled.

Yeah, sure.

> Poor planning on her planning doesn't constitute and emergency on anyone else. That's the point.

Except that in this case, the situation from the airline creates an emergency for everybody else but the bad parent. It literally punishes good parents and rewards bad parenting.

> I hate entitled people, and this is the definition of it.

Yeah and the airline asks extra payment for parents who don't feel entitled. We always go back to the airline for considering that normal.

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