I totally agree and take full accountability for what I did. I know I could have done a lot more to stop him.

I never thought about him this way before, even during I was like what?? But I also think when you see students every day, it's a whole different thing. I haven't seen him in 8 months, and I unfortunately didn't really think about him as a student anymore

Do you have any trauma over this? You should talk to someone if this story is true.

Being in a toxic relationship in which someone tries to marry you off to a stranger is not support.

Nice fanfic, bro.

Oh I know I'm an idiot.

He never did anything before this that I can classify as too far. I think the only contact was maybe the last school day when they all gave me a hug?

But I did see him outside of work, but just in passing if I was hanging out with his mother. And I would never had said yes if it was his suggestion, but I trusted the mom, and kinda assumed I was hanging out with something similar to a little brother

This is the way. I’m honestly shocked OP hasn’t mentioned this.

I’m not a “sue them” type of guy, but if someone made it so I can’t BREATHE, damn right I’d be suing them for every penny they have.

I was a young teacher once and teenagers crush on adult figures who are nice to them all the time. You really should know better.

No parents put their children in a teacher’s care thinking it is ok for the teacher to sleep with their children. It doesn’t matter if it’s legal in your country. There is a power imbalance and it is not ok

Get a lawyer. It seems like there are people who could be held at least partially responsible.

You’re lucky he forgave you. If anyone ever went through my phone when I was sleeping that would be the end of it.

So your advice isn’t ‘maybe don’t send nudes to strangers on the internet’ but rather ‘abandon the support of your family because they are obvious out to get you’? Amazing.

I might be wrong here. We use kg and I just assumed. Maybe he's closer to 190? Idk. I'm around 130 lbs, and compared to me, and him being 17, I think he's huge

No, you don't, not really. You are putting your feelings first so once again, you are sacrificing your soon-to-be-ex wife's EVERYTHING you have done and plan to do is ruining your wife. You're just finding pretty rationales to dress it up.

You're either an idiot for going alone with a student to a concert and having him stay at a class, or someone who was sexually assaulted and borderline raped and then decided they enjoy it. The students behavior is beyond disturbing.

Dude. You only want to keep your daughter because you're afraid you will miss her. And that's on YOU...for cheating against your wife. Saying your country is better and that you have more money is just you putting your own self-interest first, because it is more important for a parent to be loving and have a close bond. And even with all this vaunted love you have for your daughter, you still blew up your marriage because you had to scratch an itch. You are, RIGHT NOW, unfit to be a decent father.

Be so for real

How many diapers have you changed? How many times have you read to your child? How many times have you fed her? How many hours of any given week have you thought about her? How many times have you actually played with her? Is it even as much as you boinking some other woman?

The sheer size of him? He’s 175 lbs… he’s a damn rail at 6’4”.

As a maths and science teacher, in a language that is not English, I'm taking these comments as a compliment.

I spent a long time writing it, as I didn't want people to attack me, but also understand that I actually know I fucked up and I'm remorseful.

I- wow. Maybe I will throw it away.

Look. You cheated because you wanted what you wanted in the moment, EVEN KNOWING that it would devastate your wife. Why should we believe that you will actually put your daughter first? None of your boo hoo pity party is believable.

Holy shit that's fucked up

Where the main person is the student? Because this is a nightmare for me.

I will not lose my job, but I'll probably get pushed out of it, if it gets out. Small community, and everyone knows everyone's business

For sure. I hope OP is alright and that she can get to a more comfortable and safe living situation

I'll take that as a compliment?

I don't teach language classes, and I assumed my spelling or syntax is not even close to being part of a creative writing class.

And if it sounds like fantasy, maybe I can lie my ass off if someone confronts me

We know you're scum. Your trying to take your child from her mother. You are actually willing to make her pain and suffering that much worse so you can claim you "love" your daughter more. Give me a break.