Why are you apologising again ?

I like to yell KACHOW!

Am i the only one who doesn't get the issue? Anytime i've gotten a BJ, if i don't bust in the girls mouth, they probably would think something was wrong. Isn't that the point of head? To finish in the girls mouth? Then they spit or swallow? I don't get why shes so offended.

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I don’t really see how someone could be mad about that, tbh.

Source: have given a few bjs in my life.

Circumcision

I heard about this tactic being used in Japan. One reason why I'd definitely avoid places like Kabukicho: you never know what you're getting into if you don't speak the language

That's quite the rich life experience, in my opinion. You have to experience some of the uglier faces of humanity to appreciate the human condition

Yeah, they make you pay up front for each drink, avoid any unpleasantries from occurring 😁

Aw shucks, you're too kind. I'm just another useless guy trying to avoid responsibility and emotions using work as an excuse

Yup, it seldom gets more pathetic than me. There was a reason why I went in there voluntarily. I should've been more cautious with my money but a good time was had. That and strip clubs don't exist here. You either pay someone to pretend to like you and flirt with you or pay someone to sleep with you.

“Whoopdie doo, here comes the goo”

Yup, exactly this. I think she'd get half of ieach drink and the drinks are certainly watered-down or just water and syrup

Kinda. The hostess bars I'm referring to are known locally as 'Juice Bars' or 'Juicy Bars' and cater to bored, lonely privates and airmen.

Historically they're linked to prostitution and there are still many that are fronts for it. There's been a lot of push from the powers-that-be to get rid of them and a lot of them are genuinely just bars where guys go to buy overpriced, watered-down drinks for the women so that they'll talk to them.

I'd be disappointed if her number wasn't a burner: she's not taking enough precautions

I think it helped a LOT that I'm not military, spoke her language and more importantly, I'm a needy sucker with a fear of commitment 😂

Yup yup, she was really swell gal who obviously knows how to spin a yarn and keep the conversation (and drinks) flowing

Yeah, it was a good night out to be honest. Everything has a price, and I'm willing to pay that every now and again for consequence-free plastic flirting

Yessir, this was in Korea. A LOT of the actual prostitution-linked Juicy bars have disappeared, leaving the most determined ones to operate slightly nore covertly. A lot of people still call the hostesses 'Juicies'.

Yeah i really should've asked for either a video chat or a picture of her doing the finger symbol a long time ago. I just didn't want to believe someone was capable of such manipulation. She built the narrative of not trusting me, so i felt the need to prove myself that i care about her enough to wait for her.

Yeah i got the same feeling, that it might be him all along. He told me he noticed many times that me and her logged out at the same time, cause we did often say goodnight to each other.

The concept is OP will suggest meeting up, but 'oh no, I have to work. Why don't you just stop by for a bit and we'll catch up'

It's almost certainly a burner specifically for the purpose

How did the other guy know you and her were messaging each other? What if they are both either in on the scam, or the same person?

I encountered a similar situation on Match.com 25 years ago with a doctor named "Trisha" who lived in Seattle. We emailed each other all day long. Then out of the blue someone who claimed he was an ex emailed me, told me she was playing him and me, and wanted to meet up to exchange notes. So we did, and this guy was pretty cool and then started calling and wanting to hang out. Turns out he was gay and was "Trisha" all along. Long story, didn't want to hijack your thread, but just a warning.

Happy cake day! 🍰

What happened to video chat? Honestly it's been so many years since I've done this but don't things like private video calls on omegle still exist?

I'm probably thinking of something different because Omegle doesn't have the option to invite to chat but there's definitely options other than WhatsApp, if she has trust issues suggest both creating throwaway accounts on a video chat site.