Try not to apologize for your own pleasure. You shouldnt feel guilty because of it. Try and warn her a little earlier next time and if you can’t hold her off, just take it back until you cool off a bit.

Lol.

With extra frosting.

Kinda a let down when it was just someone getting worked up about being misled over the internet :(

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Dude shit happens. You had a weird sexual experience. The list is long of men and women who did. Give her some space. If it was meant to be it you both will figure it out.

I don’t see the big deal- if you’re sucking dick you shouldn’t be surprised if he Cuna in your mouth. I was hoping she puked after- but lol!

She’s probably just as embarrassed as you.

My thoughts exactly assumed it to be the gawd damn fish

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I mean if you've been on five dates and she's frank about sex, just tell her all this. I think it'll go a long way. you clearlened, you know why it happened, and you feel nothing but contrition for it. If you're clear about it and discuss it fully, I'm sure you'll be fine.

Well that blows

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I’m not sure she’s going to be that mad about it I mean I am sure she’s done it before, but just curious, how you didn’t know that you were coming and pull out?

Wrong, any decent guy warns that he’s coming….always. They should’ve had a discussion beforehand about what she wanted to do when he comes, but when they didn’t do that, you don’t assume you can shoot it down her throat.

To answer this question, I suggest you read some of my replies

a bar with attractive young waitresses/hosts that will sit down with drunk professional men and make them feel special while tricking them into paying to drink with them with shots/drinks usually 50%-100% over menu prices,

This is literally the point of hostess bars, you fucked up if you didnt think that would happen? what did you think would happen?

Why do I read this shit

hot

“Literally you’re so hot I didn’t see it coming.” (Ba dun chhhh)

Man… I feel like being honest here would be the move.

If you get a chance to talk to her in person Try to explain that you’ve had these issues, and spin it in a way that she gave you confidence that you aren’t broken.

And if things don’t work out, count this as a win. Because now you know you can finish with a girl. And you have a new standard to work with.

still don't

> The topic of my staying power in bed came up, and when I told her I had never finished with a girl, she joked that our next date would have to be on a long weekend.

This was the problem

thats fuckin funny my man, but if the girl is mature and smart she'll probably won't make a big deal out of it. I think any self-conscious adult should just laugh it off, unless she has some strong opinion against having semen in her mouth. Your excuse is how great she was anyways

Damnit I totally thought this was going to be someone telling us about their torrid love affair with a bottom feeding whiskered fish…

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