I'm not positive she wasn't not telling the truth tbh, at least from what I'm reading. Yeah the profile picture is a lie for sure, however I'm not sure about the rest of it, but follow your gut.

In my early 20s, I dated someone who kept messaging me from different numbers after we broke up, often pretending to be someone else. He even messaged my study abroad group, my dad, people I dated afterwards. I have no idea how he found them since I had him blocked everywhere. Still do.

So she may be telling the truth, using someone else's picture so he couldn't find her. Since she's attractive, maybe she was going to explain the different photos in person as a way to avoid him. Some asshole may be getting in the way of her happiness.

I'm probably projecting on the situation due to my past though.

I wish you all luck in finding love!

I mean he was a virgin, hard to expect anything else from a person with literally 0 experience.

Send flowers with a short, handwritten apology. A text isn’t enough in this situation

I’m circumcised and I treat my cock with love and care

No no no - nobody expects or wants you to cum after only three bobs of the head, with no warning and no prior discussion, into their mouth and all over them. She wanted to have sex and get off also, and then she didn't. "Something came up" and she left. Does that sound like somebody who "wanted" a jizzy mess?

OP don't listen to this guy. She definitely didn't want that. But it's possible she would understand, forgive, have a laugh about it with you, and give you another chance.

I didn't see that coming. Neither did she

We call that Gluck Gluck 36000 with the thundertwist super grip vacuum neck

Yeh, this. The OP spent time talking about his sexual performance that didn’t line up at all with the actual experience.

She probably feels lied to in order to get her into bed, or some similar feeling.

Ehm. You told a girl that it takes a lot for you to finish then you came rly hard the second she gave you a blowjob.

She probably thinks you’re a big talker.

Never mind the sensitivity part You made such a rookie mistake. You over promised and underdelivered. When you set the bar that high you are sure to fail. Set the bar low next time and exceed expectations

Maybe it was even his first bj… he never mentioned anything about it

This.

She wanted you to come - and you should just had let it happen. I mean normally girls know when a guy is about to finish - especially when giving head - so she should have seen it cumming (pun intended).

Don’t stress yourself out - sex is super dirty sometimes and some cum on some clothes/hair etc is nothing new to her probably.

That she had to puke because you shot it into her throat is a bad thing that happened but your overreaction in apologizing etc is maybe even worse… idk but I think she’s not uninterested in you because of this whole story.

IMO you two are gonna have a lot more fun, just take it easy man

Same. In fact, harder grip is much less pleasureful to me than relaxed one.

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The heavy downvotes on this are hella gross. I can't imagine thinking well of a guy that doesn't give warning and can't really imagine the downvoter's perspective. If I'm happily making out with someone that doesn't mean I want them to hock a gob of spit in my mouth, even though spit is a normal byproduct of making out.

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I’ve always said to tap me before like on the head or something…

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tell her it was just a spooky ghost, nothing to see here

Was this your first time getting head? If so just tell her that, if she's cool she'll understand if not then she wasn't as great as you thought she was. You apologized for your mess if she's still ghosting you gotta let her go bro. If that's the case i hope you find someone that is truly understanding and can lay next to you with a mouth full of your load and laugh at the experience that you two just shared. Good luck

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Straight up cough

The subtle John Mulaney reference is well done

I think OP can help with that

I have the same "problem" too, but it depends on the season. There is times that took me like 2, 3 hours to finish (almost allways with my hand), to the point where it start hurting. And there's seasons where i can finish in 30 minutes, in other hand it have occuried 3 times where i finished in like 2 or 3 rides... Don't know wtf is going on to me but i like my performance in sex, i'm 29.
Anyway, does she are mad at you just because you came and don't tell her? Idk it sounds over reacted, anyway, i hope you can fix things with your girl. And hope you can keep having sex