Recent comments in /f/tifu

VicePrincipalNero t1_jb5kesi wrote

If course neither of them wanted it to play out that way, but stuff happens unintentionally. He's not experienced. IMO, what usually happens in this kind of situation is the guy says he's sorry and didn't mean for it to happen, but he then focuses on her enjoyment for a while. Then he's ready for round 2. It's not that she runs off to the bathroom for an hour.

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NeuroticLoofah t1_jb5k2rv wrote

Downvotes don't bother me, this is a hill I will die on. It is like being waterboarded with slime (and I have no problems with swallowing as long as it is expected).

When I got the alert for your comment, I was in a thread discussing the rising rate of women who are refusing to have sex with men. The two women I know that are celebate are not so because of abortion access or anything, it's because they are tired of men putting his pleasure before her comfort.

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VicePrincipalNero t1_jb5jho5 wrote

I don't think you did anything wrong. Our bodies react sometimes in ways we don't expect. She sounds a little immature/inexperienced not to know that guys don't always know when they are going to come, and if she likes giving BJs, what happened was a possibility.

One of the keys to good sex is communication. It's awkward until you get used to it but you need to learn how to power through the awkwardness. Talking about it at a time when you aren't doing anything sexual is the way to go. I would try to see her and talk it over. Tell her you didn't intend for things to go the way they did, that you like her a lot and hope she is willing to continue seeing you. Don't drag your friends into it, it's private.

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jap_the_cool t1_jb5il8y wrote

I must admit that I misread the initial text as she gave him head and there where three special bobs (I thought maybe deepthroating ?) and then he came…

I mean they had lots of foreplay - if he didn’t jerk off that day that’s kinda not too uncommon for a guy who gets head. And he wanted to cum too… don’t forget that.

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