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Hour-Cap-4677 t1_jbs53ky wrote

I think it's also worth noting that my website was a bit of a threat to landlords so I don't want to create any conspiracy theories but there was a possibility that they were trying to find any reason to take down my post. Just a fun little thought in the back of my head.

Can you guys stop giving me bad karma? Lol what did I do wrong? Is the title too click baitey or is the TL;DR not accurate?

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Hour-Cap-4677 t1_jbrva9e wrote

Correct but Its weird bc if I had just posted only on my main account and not the first one, I wouldn't have gotten banned in the first place. So I basically break one rule that I didn't know was a rule and I get perma banned, no 2nd chances. I understand that I don't make the rules but I feel like this situation was a bit weird and it would've been okay to make my 2nd post since it was no longer breaking the first rule I broke

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CuddleWings t1_jbqom2z wrote

It’s like saying “Hey, wanna study together at that coffee shop?” Then using what should’ve been a harmless study session as a date. Typically during dates you’ll ask personal questions to get to know the person better and talk about yourself. All topics that rarely come up during study. Of course there’s more nuance to it, asking someone about their interests isn’t always ghost dating. Frankly OP could’ve been ghost dating this girl. We don’t know anything other than him paying for her drink. It’s one of those things that’s hard to define, but you know it when you see it. There’s tons of room for overlap between the events of a date and a study session.

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KindAccountant1386 t1_jbpsh13 wrote

>hat’s not a young people thing. “Ghost dating” is a real thing and this is 1000% not it. It’s turning a platonic meeting into a date, much more than just

What would be considered "Ghost dating"? This is the first time I've ever heard/read about it!

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BeanedHam t1_jbooaqp wrote

Hey my guy I get that you’re probably like 14 so I’m not gonna harp on you too hard but you gotta understand that worrying about “what a man is supposed to do” is doing the exact opposite of what you think it’s doing.

You’re letting other people tell you how to act, letting other people tell you who you should be. Does that sound positive to you? Does it sound “masculine” to let the fear of other people not thinking you’re “man enough” dictate how you act? Just be yourself and stop worrying so much about whether other people think

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jp11e3 OP t1_jbone3s wrote

I appreciate the perspective. I know a number of people here are saying I did nothing wrong, but even without ulterior motives I do think it would've been better if I asked her beforehand and let her have the space to decide without the added pressure of already being up at the cashier. You live and you learn

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