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3 days on, 1 day cardio for my doctor 😂

OP will be lifting his penis tonight thinking about the gym crush, until he makes the next move

It's like when I bought my daughter implants when she turned 21. She found it akward at first but after getting the hottest guy in her college to fuck her she called me and said im the best dad ever. So what Im saying is, you might get a second chance at them appreciating you.

Bro do U even lift?

You did perfect. You said it yourself - girls aren’t at the gym to find a date and don’t want to be bothered.

Next time, you have a door to wave, smile and say hi. Leave it at that. Maybe a quick, “How’s it going?” Let it go organic after that. If she’s into you, she’ll reciprocate. Then down the road (months! Not days) you can drop a, “Hey, I was going to grab a smoothie, would you want to join?” Or something like that.

As far as rando condos are the gym goes, this sounds like a good one.

You'll see her again. Just play it cool. Maybe tell her your name next time.

Gym crush is a person/people at the gym you have a crush on. Pretty common knowledge

I actually think this was good, she was probably never has a guy NOT ask for her number. If you see her again, see if she waves or acknowledges you. I have the same anxiety and it really sucks when you finally get the nerve and either mess up or get rejected. But I think you did just fine

"Always leave them wanting more" is solid advice, whether it's a broadway show or a movie or a brief encounter. I bet she's intrigued and thinking about seeing you at the gym next time.

"Gym Crush"

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Really?

Sounds like an emergency, I think she'll understand once the betrayal feeling wears off

I think you did a solid. If you would've started chatting her up like everyone else it wouldn't have been appreciated. Joking about relatable experiences in the gym is a good way to get your confidence up about approaching her.

You did well. I was expecting a big fu. You don’t just ask for a number random. She doesn’t know you yet. You’ve already said it, but next time you see her just casually say hey.

A lot of women don't like being approached at the gym, so a low key ice breaker is a good way to start.

This is not a fuckup, you’re both at the same gym, you’ll see her again

That's not a fuck up. That's just an asshole teacher not competent enough to teach.

They're afraid of being involved with one boss doesn't like.

The mgr will make their own decisions. What you noticed could have been attempts at mgr to be "ok" with folks & then do what they feel is best. Don't bring it up again & take mgrs advice. A smart mgr doesn't change things till they feel out the situations unless they were hired to do otherwise.

Well, yeah, that is what she needed to do.

Wtf? And how exactly should OP have handled this? Her bf calls her late at night, scared out of his wits and OP just says, ‘Sorry babe, can’t come here. Rules are rules!’

Nope. That’s dumpable behaviour and if someone is doing you a effing favour, you can at least be reasonable in emergency circumstances.

Well, yeah, you broke an agreement over a boundary. Breaking her trust isn't going to win you points.

I agree with your sister. I really don’t like people in my house when I’m not home. She trusted you to stay there. Not your boyfriend. I would have been upset with your boyfriend staying there too. I don’t understand being 27 years old and being scared of noises in the apartment at night to the point that you’re afraid to stay alone. Sounds like an excuse to have him over.

oh my gosh i wish this was the case haha i’d love that :p

NTA

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