This guy Costanzas.

Yeah idk man this just seems really obsessive not going to lie. And putting down a “gym bro” for flexing in the mirror is a bit cringe. I wish you luck on your crush but focus on yourself in the main.

Well that’s nice of your neighbor but he didn’t see your car then while plowing it?

I don't know, you might be reading too much into her being nice. You said she gets approached a lot at the gym? She likely has the small chat down from all the guys attempting to talk to her. Maybe you won some points, but I'm not sure how you're any different than any of the other gym bros that try talking to her, you know? I mean... you also kind of told her you been watching her haha

It's not worth fretting about. This is why we have insurance. My kid's car burned up on an impound lot a little over a year ago. It sucks at the time, but I just had to let the process play out.

I live in the country side and my neighbor plows the driveway since my father died. He plows it because he knows my mom and I are struggling

Seconded. This is not a fuck-up. You actually created a little bit of mystery, a reason to engage in conversation again another time

OP. There is hope. Listen, here’s what you gotta do… just train legs every day until you see her again. Own that squat rack!

When she comes in again to train, you give her the rack like a total gentleman, her gym hero if you will. What’s the worst that happens— you don’t see her for 4 months again? 4 months of training legs daily, you’ll have the quads of a Greek god!

EDIT: I should add I met my wife at the gym. Noticed her after partnering up during a HIIT group class at my gym (like 10 people), and saw she liked to foam roll after her workouts. So I booked it to the foam rollers after our next workout so that I’d casually be there first and she’s have to join ME instead of the other way around.

Let’s hope she doesn’t read this. With all those details it sounds like a stalker

Do you mean the sidewalk? I’m confused. Why would your neighbor be plowing your driveway?

If you see her again come back to read the advice and ground yourself before talking again. It will do you wonders. Especially keep you out of your emotional mind.

No I’m just hysterical and bad at typing

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Wtf is this post.

Next time you see her is all about getting her name. That's all you need to do. As long as you can successfully do that and she's happy to talk to her, you're in with a chance.

Or you awkwardly hang out and just wait for the priest/celebrant to say it at the wedding.

Ya I was getting ready for the second hand embarrassment but you actually played this fine. Next time is when you get the number

jesus, talk to her next time.

you didn't fuck up! as a woman at the gym, I don't like when men ask for my number the first time we meet. build a rapport with her and see how it goes from there. good job stepping out of your comfort zone :)

you didn't fuck up! as a woman at the gym, I don't like when men ask for my number the first time we meet. build a rapport with her and see how it goes from there. good job stepping out of your comfort zone :)

Big win. Use this.

Next time you see her you can say, "hey, it's nice to see you again. Have a nice work out. Oh, you know I forget to ask you your name last time we chatted. I'm u/TravellingTrav. Nice to meet you formally this time." And go to your work out.

And here I thought it was going to be something where you came off as a creep and got your gym membership suspended. Not getting another gym member's name is pretty mild in comparison.

3 minutes between comment and OP response.

This one really got your motor running, huh?

What it taste like?

😂 odd roundabout way of getting there but point taken 😂