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lunelily t1_jd65snf wrote

As others have gently mentioned, the feelings you’re going through here—first growing super attached too quickly, then freaking out about a lull in contact, and finally writing this comment trying to shift some of the blame for your behavior to the other person—are textbook indications that you may have some unresolved abandonment trauma to work through. And that is something you can work on with a therapist, if you want to avoid repeating this cycle with others you click with in the future.

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VStramennio1986 t1_jd5vom7 wrote

Abandonment is something that a lot of people fear. There are coping methods that can help with that. If you don’t have a counselor, I would highly suggest you find one. It may take a few times to find the right one, but it will be worth it in the end. All the best 🥰

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