So what did they want in return?

Thank you! But yeah I guess. I’ve had pretty good experiences when it comes to that stuff but this time it didn’t work out haha

It could have been much worse.

I have an idea that it has to do with the chain in the tank.

And the other that the bowl needs to get unclogged.

At least now you might be better prepared if you ever go back.

Dude that sucks, well done for standing your ground, even though you shouldn't have had to!

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Thanks I guess!

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Good for you not falling for blackmail!

You were very lucky. I know a lady who rejected a guy who went in her toilet and made a shit. Some ladies are very tense about pooping men.

I’d honestly stop trying to justify your actions/reactions and start seeking help or therapy. Blaming it on triggering you because of something 20 years ago isn’t healthy or emotionally mature of you.

Fear of abandonment, huge attachment after one day, potential love bombing on your side, huge reaction to no reply while he was sleeping

You’ve unfortunately given him insight into what a relationship with you would be like and so far it sounds like you have the same behaviour that many people with borderline personality disorder do. Not saying you do but you should get counselling asap.

Haha, I'm glad I got a response after typing that all out!

God, imagine if u did clean it up off the car in front of her, shed wonder "what the fuck, why" for the rest of her life, because there is zero chance she puts together that u cleaned it up because it's yours, because you took a shit and couldn't flush it, panicked, and threw it out the window because you didn't want to ruin your vibes

In Russia the turd hurls you… 😏

(Allegedly)

i live in KCMO and sometimes it is that bad. only in certain parts though 😂

Some people throw steak at closed windows.

Others throw turds at Toyotas.

Same. I was like “damn is he talking about KC Kansas or KC Missouri?” I’ve been to KC, MO. And it wasn’t that bad lol

Came to say essentially this

You were with someone for one day, more or less, and started hearing wedding bells. That's way too much to put on another person and it sounds like you aren't ready to build the relationship that you seem to crave too much.

The pot was pretty the biggest I could find but maybe 3-4l. The second pot was even smaller.

I think a part of the problem was the rusty and stuck flush button. I pushes in a clunky way so the water is released in sort of smaller chunks

Maybe it could have done bette by looking for even bigger pot, but its over now.

Dude that is messed up. Leave that Toyota alone

hmm, even if pressure is low a toilet should flush properly unless there is a calcium/lime build up

the pot trick should have worked but maybe you needed more water to find the right flow, usually a 9L bucket will do

I need a way to ask this smoothly. I am very curious too.

I dont want to sit on kid the whole evening and night. Imagine if I had to do it in the later when she is back or in the morning and ran into the same problem.