You are why many people become serial killers or kill themselves, you don’t seem to care if the parents are capable parents nor about the child’s quality of life. You are the problem

Most disabilities are hereditary and dominant not recessive 😃 go back to school

Can't you just turn off your phone's vibration and your office Alexa?

So you assume a disabled person will always give birth to a disabled baby? You and I dont know her condition so lets not assume. Plus if a couple wants a baby irrespective of their physical or mental conditions - it is completely their choice and its upon them.....there is no question about 'morally' here.....its entirely and exclusive up to the couple to decide.....there are many morally right things for some people that are morally wrong for others

I hate my school

While it’s their right doesn’t mean it’s morally right when you know it’s going to be passed down.. you’d really wish upon someone to be born with terrible disabilities when it could have been prevented??

Yeah sounds like it’s doing her a favor and you too

Your parents are aholes for not taking your side in this situation. You handled it properly. You asked her to stop, and she got rude and laughed at you. After that, it is what it is. I'd never punish my son for doing the right thing. Sometimes, the right thing is protecting yourself.

Wtf ? Its their fucking choice whether they want a kid or not and you have no fucking right to go against. Keep barking on the internet

This is why you should always build stuff like this with something along the lines of "if variable.enabled=true then deliver message, else do nothing." Then you can just toggle off a faulty alarm.

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the amount of times you insulted her in a post about how you fucked up..... yikes

Thanks. Yea I think her body's doing her a favour. She was born like this and developed those conditions and now she wants to pass them onto a baby.

Probably a good thing we aren't friends anymore.

Some mistakes are too easy to make and can really cause damage. Maybe just write a short apology letter with a small gift. Don't beat yourself up, I'm sure the way you feel will help you be more mindful about stuff like that in the future

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Don't worry about it. Life is full of fuckups. You live with it. It passes.

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Tough situation cause you don't want to be labeled a narc either, so you're stuck, which is what the antagonist is planning on.

Temper aside, the person was doing something to you that hurt and you didn't like. If someone does that, simply say "don't do x" loudly, drawing attention. If it's not painful, maybe best just to move away or ignore it. Hope that helps for the future.

As someone who has struggled with anger issues their entire life, I understand. The best analogy I've got for you is you're a can or bottle of soda. If something gets you worked up(shaken) it doesn't matter who does it. Whomever undoes that cap is the one getting soda all over them. That said, I know things might be tense right now, but do you think you could sit down and talk about it with your dad? I know the school won't want to hear it, but having someone to talk to really helps. If any of your friends ask, just tell them that you were stressed out, and she was the last straw and it wasn't personal.

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There are more than two options.

You both sound unbearable.

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