I hope you pass with furry colours..

I find it hilarious to imagine the professor receiving a profusely apologetic email about furry porn.

But there are so many furry porn websites

Which specifically did these furry porn pictures get uploaded to?

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totally Honest mistake friend. Send some flowers with a heart-felt note and all will be forgiven.

Yes, you're in the penalty box, but she got what was coming for instigating. As the great comedian Bill Burr once said, "Even hockey gives you 2 for instigating."

I went the other way, I got an appointment to speak with the local media and they had a chat with the ISD on why special needs children were ok to target i their schools. Then I had a "personal" conversation with the Principle after a local football game. Real polite, real close, and very much invading his space. I simply said, I have ZERO issues with my child being suspended, but I will be very unhappy if the bully gets away with no punishment and showed him the dozens of videos of the little shit fucking with him. If you want zero tolerance then you best enforce it equally. Any time after that when ANYTHING happened with my child he would call me immediately.

As a parent we are willing to pay the price it takes to make sure our kids get a fair shake. Even if it means acting like an asshole to force the people who are supposed to be looking out for them to do their jobs.

Damn that’s so terrible bro, proof of the pics or it didn’t happen 👀

Good on you for standing up for yourself. Though its better to do it without violence, I reckon the other girl will think twice before playing childish games with people in the future.

You clearly never had to deal with bullies yourself. It’s not just kicking the chair. It’s everything, the constant behaviour, the laughter, the jokes. And sometimes you can’t take it anymore. And today nobody can give a snack to a kid to teach them a lesson. Saying there are other solutions is unrealistic and only someone who has never been bullied believes it. Do you know what teachers did when I complained about being bullied? They talked with the bully. And it would work for a couple of days. The first time I fought back and knocked out one of them, I became the "dont fuck with him guy". its not up to OP to educate the bully. But it is up to OP to not let people fuck with her. I dont go around hitting people now at work. because I can reason with them. As a kid, bullies didnt understand reason. they understood getting their asses kicked.

I threw a razor blade at someone in elementary school and you got 5 days out of school for hitting someone? Lucky...

Been there, done that. Feel it, don’t let it consume you. Unfortunately people sometimes need to get smacked to learn a lesson. I’m glad you can defend yourself. You’re not the first kid getting into a fight. And most likely it won’t be your last. Next time try to wait until nobody else is seeing and make sure she doesn’t forget and you’ll never have to fight her again.

Feel the feeling, but don't become the emotion.

There's a difference between "violence is not an appropriate response" and "violence is not an effective response." Violence absolutely can be effective. That does not make it appropriate.

I had a mistep of my own. I order some lube and forgot to double check the shipping address at walmart. I ended up sending it to my kid who opened it and asked why I sent it to her. I was mortified and embarrassed. She also thought it was funny but I didn't. I felt horrible.

It was a humor, relax

And today you learned at school that "Revenge is a dish best served cold"

It's hard to keep your anger in check but in today's society//classroom you got to think about the consequences of your actions first rather than just react.

He’s making an it’s always sunny reference

"This is too eloquently put, it's gotta be building to something, where's the punchlin- oop, there it is"

I'm not saying that violence is the answer, just that it matters who started it. Zero-tolerance treats all involved as equal perpetrators, and that's not always the case. It's important that the principal knows that she didn't start whaling on the other girl unprovoked.

Honestly, I sympathize a bit more with teachers and administrators now that I'm older. Their hands are fairly tied, and zero-tolerance policies don't help. They're often met with resistance from parents who are bullies themselves or who simply don't believe their child would ever behave that way. Sometimes the parents struggle with disciplining them at home. In-school issues don't always occur in isolation. It can be a layered thing. I just wish more could be done for those who are targeted.

While I don't think you did the right thing here, everyone learned a lesson. Call it a small win. You seem to understand that it probably wasn't the right move to get physical, and the other party got a quick batch of fuck around and find out.

I completely made it up but yeah it was so embarassing

Agreed! But if she doesn’t, then getting yourself in trouble shouldn’t be your go to solution.

If she doesn’t leave you alone, there are other options. She was totally wrong (and a jerk) for laughing and kicking your chair. You were also wrong for punching her.

Maybe she should’ve left me alone

I’m gonna try to keep that in mind if there’s any girls in the future