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randimort t1_jdgv1x7 wrote

Always stand up to assholes and bullies strange thing is when you do they won’t bully you again as a bully only attack weakness. Sad the system won’t acknowledge this is needed response. You could not have reasoned with the girl behind you so you took action. You did not sit there and stew on it or play passive. People like you go far in life one day you will be hugely successful and chair kick girl will be working the drive through at Wendy’s. take care she don’t spit In your coke

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Akakage t1_jdgtn69 wrote

You're not wrong, but it's a realistic one. Winding someone up to the point they snap is on both people. You'd not get pissy at a dog for snapping because someone was pissing it off, people should be held accountable and be able to exercise better patience, but we all have breaking points and can only take so much. She was also in physical pain from it, that alone can make people lash out defensively. If you've never been so angry at someone trying to annoy you to the point of lashing out then you've lived a sheltered life and not been much of (if any) a victim of bullying behaviour. She couldn't easily remove herself from the situation without getting in trouble, teachers are notoriously shite at dealing with stuff like this, she asked the person to stop being a twat, they didn't they got twatted, that's on the person being a twat.

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Akakage t1_jdgt9cg wrote

Soo you get 5 days off of school AND make some dickhead think twice about kicking your chair again? Awesome. This is the correct and final way to deal with bullies. I regret not smacking mine in the mouth sooner, it tends to work.

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6reen312 t1_jdgqure wrote

Tell that the girl that offed herself cuz noone helped her in school when she got bullied for weeks and noone did a thing. Yes, violence fucking sucks but when it comes to schools these days you are either are prey because the only thing you do is use words or you are not because ppl know it will hurt when they fuck around with you. And ppl won't stop if you walk away or talk to them. I am not saying this is good but this is sadly how it is.

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Citadelvania t1_jdgqq4u wrote

I've had teachers that would have zero sympathy, give me a zero and tell me to learn my lesson and double-check next time regardless of what I did or didn't submit. I've also had teachers give me a 1 or 2 week extension with no hesitation and tell me to take of myself first and worry about their class second. It varies a lot.

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