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NoGood_Boyo t1_jdirvp4 wrote

You didn't fuck up. They are in customer service. Should know how to politely navigate small talk with a regular customer. I'm sure their bizarre, angry behavior will ensure they have long successful marriage.

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Nivekian13 t1_jdirgmr wrote

Maybe have some better boundaries, the world is not made of "soft people" like another dopey poster said, it's full of people living another life and facing another reality with their loved ones. Some people don't like boundaries and personal questions. Some are assholes.

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That is why you vet who you have heavy conversations about personal relationships & families with. Read the room better, act more reserved in public.

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Mama8606 t1_jdiqdo5 wrote

Do not change your routine cause of touchy workers. They had an issue and you explained, you owe them nothing else and you don't deserve to be uncomfortable just cause they misunderstood. People get approached everyday and it's presumptuous to think that you were attempting to get at her just by asking questions. Wifey needs to check her arrogance.

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PreferredSelection t1_jdiosnt wrote

7/11's are full of strange people, not your fault.

I would say, Stud likely fits here, but is probably not the best way to describe this person unless she has self-identified as such to you. They're a pretty divisive group, and a lot of butch women with similar aesthetics might not want to be called that.

(It'd be kind of like calling somebody 'trad wife' when they're just cottagecore. Small difference in aesthetic, big difference in values.)

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lastwhangdoodle t1_jdin410 wrote

Wow some of the replies on here...yikes. If you really want to change this maybe give therapy a serious consideration. People will annoy you in life, sometimes even purposely, but if you react with violence as an adult you're going to wind up dead or in jail.

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MrFavorable t1_jdikw09 wrote

> So we started having some arguments and fights and that became really common In 2021, we had a big fight and we went like 4 months without talking or seeing each other. I reached out and said I wanted to see her after all this time So I go to her house and we were talking, then she told me she had lost her virginity to her ex boyfriend at a party and I felt like I was cheated on.

Doesn’t talk for four months, expects to have something with this girl still. Finds out she had sex, and YOU felt like you got cheated on? Dear lord someone help this kid.

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