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monadyne t1_jdl5v4n wrote

>give it some time before going back.

Absolutely not! Don't let someone else's interpretation of your remarks dictate your reality. Just keep going back as often as you normally would. Let them adapt to you, rather than you adapting to them. If you'd been an asshole, that would be different, But you were not being an asshole. You avoiding visits there makes it appear that you are remorseful about something. Please don't support that mistaken perception.

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EndlessLadyDelerium t1_jdl07v8 wrote

Asking anyone about children is extremely personal, especially if they don't have any yet: perhaps they've been rejected for apportion, or are going through that process; perhaps they're saving for IVF and it's stressful with the job they work; perhaps IVF has been successful but they've experienced a miscarriage.

OP doesn't know anything about their reproductive life, and childless couples might desperately want children but can't have them for one reason or another.

Or they simply disagree.

It is invasive, OP! I read recently about a woman with a young child who had two older women practically interrogate her while she was getting her hair done about having more. Eventually she told them that she's trying to give her child a sibling but that all her babies keep dying!

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LeRon-Jr-IX t1_jdkz8eo wrote

Yeah I’m pretty sure but I just feel like whoever this blackmailer is, is steady keeping tabs on me till tomorrow so they can expose me for fun when I tell them I don’t have the money. But I got help with a cyber investigation crew, so I should be good

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Carlos280202 t1_jdkz5dy wrote

Eh no, you don't stop going to that 711, you report her to 7/11for harassment to a customer And get both of them fired. They can't work In customer service with that attitude. You were not being rude, you did not ask her out, you were being polite, in America people are polite, they don't like it? Don't get a court facing job. They are in the wrong and they are costing a corporation customers

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hljoorbrandr t1_jdkyxj2 wrote

Oof, don’t pay them. 50/50 chance they release the pics anyway. Best chance set all your socials to private and pray.

Though most are just trying to make money from your fear. It is a crime to share pornographic material without consent so it’s a gamble for them you know?

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hljoorbrandr t1_jdkvqfj wrote

Well at least you didn’t include your face - but this is a common scam. Your pic will be used on a bunch of sites to try to scam other people and will make the rounds on Grindr but so long as you don’t have your face. Enjoy the knowledge people will see you dong!

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