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Next time be a man and clean her up then continue.

You didn't mean to hurt their feelings. Write them a letter explaining everything

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Yeah you definitely dropped the ball broski. Imagine if she went to go down on you, looked at it and then changed her mind? You'd feel super insecure right?

Just a FYI my kids were taught at school to never ever ask casual acquaintances if they want kids (or if they have kids, if they haven’t already told you). This came as a bit of a surprise to me. But my kids explained to me that yes it can be a very sensitive and personal question to many people.

As you found out, as well as the IVF thing, it also ties into issues of religion, hetero-normativity, the role of women in society, body control, ability and disability etc etc.

Best to stick to safer topics like the weather, the price of biscuits, roadworks, local news, the Ukraine war, global sports events, recent films, TV series etc.

What you said to her was, at worst, a dumb something you said while drunk. If it triggered that kind of reaction imagine what you would have to face, when you'd get a random text from a girl you know, or you wouldn't love the way she makes coffee.

Well done, I wish more parents acted this way. School officials have a duty towards the children, but often they only think of their own comfort.

Double and give it to the next person

She wanted to, as we say, "put you on a shelf", for display purposes only. You were to be an adornment, but have no real place in her love life.

Can you pls explain? I am simply dumb

You want to meet up again because you want this to go farther, despite what you are telling yourself.

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You're more worried about your coworkers finding out than you are your husband.

Get therapy and at the very least come clean to your husband.

IMHO, if that made her cry so bad you probably dodged a bullet there.

pov; you're a reddit moderator

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bad for him to lie about it since you set boundaries, but truthfully i don't think "2 months" is recent. Anything that's under a month is recent imo.

I get why you don't want him to watch that, but at the same time, I don't think everyone who watches porn purely watches it wanting to do whatever act possible w the person they see in said video/imagine.

If he has needs and you two aren't doing anything together and he's chosen to watch whatever to get that out of his system, I think it's a better alternative rather than him going out and cheating w different people. you two need to talk this out some more clearly.

as for going thru his phone? idk why people care about that shit lol. if you don't have anything to hide then you should be fine w your significant other going through your phone whenever. I've always given my phone password and login details for a bunch of shit to my S.O while I'm dating them because I have nothing to hide or be private about.

nah. not gonna wish you any good shit. been cheated on by a girl who meant the world to me

that shit breaks people, man or woman. just end the fucking relationship if you develop feelings in the slightest for anyone else. you don't deserve sympathy or good shit, imagine how your ex-girlfriend felt? She probably felt broken bruh and questioned herself for a while on whether she was good enough to make anyone happy and probably blamed herself for this.

I'm willing to bet you flirted w her, and that's cheating.

so you tried cheating online and got fucked over by a bot?

karma imo.

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Hope you have a good rest of the day!