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ASlightHiccup t1_jdmx0pz wrote

Reply to TIFU by waxing my underarm at home by Ok-Train-4244

Ok I totally can tell that you pulled out instead of down with the skin very loose. That’s why it hurt so bad and you have the bleeding. It’s REALLY hard to wax your underarms alone. Your leg is easier and less painful because the skin is tighter and it is easier to pull down so the strip is close to the skin—not to mention you can easily pull your skin taut on your leg. Get some ice and some aloe on your under arm and maybe stick to your legs-I’ve always heard that waxing your underarms can leave hyperpigmentation marks anyway so maybe stick to a different area and just shave or get some nair for the underarms. Ouchies! Good luck!

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CanadianBeta t1_jdmp8qe wrote

Reply to TIFU by losing my temper at school by Madeline2535

Jesus! I had a similar experience around your age. The annoying guy in my class kept kicking my chair. I told him to stop and his reply was: "Like that?" and kicked again.

So, in a moment that I can't explain, I got up from my seat, grabbed the chair and smashed it on his desk. Both my chair and his desk broke. He got hit with the splinters. Nothing serious.

I had to write a report and I remember that I wrote: "I broke the desk and the chair, so I would not break his skull".

Never again did he mess with me.

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3rdwheelawkward t1_jdmmriq wrote

Reply to TIFU by being too friendly by Key_Wallaby4604

Since no one here was there when the questions were asked we can’t really know for sure how it could have been perceived. Usually when strangers or customers start asking personal questions like that it’s almost always not with good intentions, from personal experience, and it depends on how they’re asking. Don’t sweat it though because you weren’t trying to be creepy with them. Just know they aren’t the type to be chummy or personal with customers.

I did want to mention that a “stud lesbian” is a term reserved for masculine presenting black women lesbians. Otherwise she’s just masc or butch. But “butch” is a term that she could call herself not really a polite term for someone who doesn’t know a person well to use for them. Typically “masc” is the better term to use for a stranger that wouldn’t come off as offensive.

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Drgnmstr97 t1_jdmmiac wrote

Reply to comment by [deleted] in TIFU by kissing one of my direct reports by [deleted]

Very odd that I can see the OP responded to this reply on her page in her comment section but I cannot see the comment on this post. Does anyone know why that is? When I click on her comment to read it, it takes me to this reply but her reply isn’t visible?????

And even more strange is that I cannot see my reply to this comment on the OP, but if I go to Keri’s-1’s page and click on his comment I can see my reply but still can’t see OP’s reply. What the hell???

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Drgnmstr97 t1_jdmldw7 wrote

Reply to TIFU by kissing one of my direct reports by [deleted]

Instead of planning to meet up with Mike you should admit what you did to your husband and try and work through this to save your marriage.

You won’t, but that is what you should do.

People in happy marriages don’t kiss other people. That kiss wasn’t “out of the blue”, it never is. And wanting to meet up with him is just going to end up in sex or crossing another line that you shouldn’t. You’re not clueless, you absolutely know how this is going to go and you are setting yourself up to progress the affair while telling yourself you won’t. Get yourself into therapy at the very least. Hopefully your therapist can figure out what is wrong with you and get you started down the path of fixing yourself. The only way out of this without destroying two families and many more other people is to admit to your husband what you did and get into therapy. It’s highly likely you will need to quit that job as well. And because all of that is SO much harder than just carrying on and falling into the affair that is what you will choose. Your poor husband and kids are going to be blindsided. I hope you make the right choice.

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