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I find it sad that there is no in-between for you between being completely okay with a disrespectful kid and full-on physical assault as a reaction to it.

Yes, OP did obviously act wrong, however the reaction of the parents was even more wrong. Imo this family needs therapy, but in the US this is just not a realistic outcome.

If you think it's okay to hit your kid with a belt, or anything else, you're dumb as fuck. Violence is not a good parenting method and numerous studies can back this up.

Also, there is a lot of middle ground between letting your kid walk all over you and HITTING THEM WITH A FUCKING BELT. Read the post again, the kid is terrified of their own dad. No-one should have to live in fear of their own parents.

So call me cringe all you want, you're advocating child abuse.

P.S. - Please never reproduce.

Ye it was

Also complete your homework kid

Abuse has no number. Parents that hit you are abusive parents.

> Not an everyday thing

It shouldn't be a once in a lifetime thing, they have already conditioned you psychologically to underestimate the value of your own well-being.

We don't have any Chick-Fil-As in Edmonton. Never tried them, is it better than KFC? We have plenty of those.

it’s not an everyday thing so i’m not sure if it would count as abuse

When did I justify abuse??

no no i definitely agree that it was super disrespectful on my end to call her that

i agree! it was irresponsible on my end to plan something knowing i had work to do

i’ve tried cardio but i don’t think i have much potential in terms of strength

really? 😭 i’m black and white

Whats part of wanting your kid to succeed at school and not tolerating him to call his mom a "bitch" makes them narcisistic parents??😂😂 How should op's parents treat him then??

OP: "Yo, bitch, bring me a sandwitch while I'm playing fortnite!"

OP's Mom: "Yes master, after the sandwich I will make your homework for you, sorry for disturbing you play session..."

I mean is this good parenting? Because if you think they are abusive and narcisistic, then is this the right way they should act?

"Hope you get out as soon as possible"- You talk as if he was in prision, they just didnt let him go this time cuz he has duties. How cringe are you kids on reddit, making OP think he is right for not doing homework and disrespecting his parents. Maybe in a few years you will understand and agree with my original comment.

Yea used to hit legs can't see the bruises. Did take it off her a few times she mellowed as she got older

That's the most asian story I heard today.

My mothers was the wooden spoon. She finally stopped after she broke one on me and I very calmly handed her another one.

OP - do what you can to prepare to leave and then do not look back. This is abuse from your family, not love.

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My mum's weapon of choice was the slipper or broom handle. She's 16 keep ur head down move out as soon as

It’s abuse and they shouldn’t have to take it. The parents are assholes.

I had to do a quick Google search, and I can see why gerbils and mice can get confused for one another

Why are you trying to justify child abuse? Hitting children as punishment is illegal in most of the world and doing the same thing to an adult is illegal literally everywhere, why are you even trying to make a point for it? It is straight up child abuse, i hope you never have kids

Time to start going to the gym so you can defend yourself from obvious child abuse.

Still, do your homework bro. Even if school sucks, at least make sure to finish it so you will have the option to do whatever you want to do.

Nice try to justify abuse

Your tldr is just your title

Nice roleplaying, now what did truly happen, if anything?