Yeah, but I'm more concerned about it being related to a cartel since it's in Dallas. Plenty of drugs pass through Texas, so a cartel is probably a more realistic threat considering OPs circumstances.

Ohhh lordy geezus... 😳

Well by your comparison. Peddling drugs in a strip club is pretty low tier, I'd say...

HA is pretty low on the organized crime totem pole. I'm not saying they're completely harmless, but they're mostly just a bunch of edgy motorcyclists that sometimes do crime on the side. Not comparable to cartels at all. Take a look a CJNJ and feel free to compare.

Holy shit, the amount of bad info. This is why you don't ask for advise from mindless idiots on Reddit.

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HA handles a huge part of drug, prostitution, sex trafficking in many parts of the world. Hardly 'low tier'

That's impressive, because I have no idea what was there before the edit and what I just read still paints OP in a horrible light.

Possession ? Sure, let them pat him, look in his house, his clothes, whatever. I doubt they'll find much.

Intoxication, yeah, could be, especially if he admits having taken the drug willingly. But would it be worse than the sum that was stolen from him ?

Hell's Angels is a bike gang that does low tier drug dealing on the side. I'd be much more concerned about an actual cartel, and even then, you should be okay as long as you're not too close to the border or too involved.

Did they exactly explain all the side effects of the drugs before hand ? Like, say, alteration of judgement ?

If the drugs are legal AND you took them knowing that you could do huge mistakes afterwards, then maybe you deserve what you got charged with.

If not, maybe, just maybe, they have done things they shouldn't have. Also, forbidding your non-intoxicated friend to come and meet you was so they could manipulate you without him protecting you guys. It's 100% a trap you fell in, and there should be ways to make a judge (or better, a jury) recognize that.

Judging by the way they rifled through his pockets and CD collection, I'm guessing that they realized they were in a pretty nice house and were looking for a piece of Afroman's pie (ie: Ca$h Money) more than a piece of his cake. Except that one portly rockstar, he'd probably shoot Afroman's grandma in the face for a doggy bag.

Report the charges immediately to your credit card company (do not call the cops) as fraud and that you felt coerced at the time of approving it - they see this all the time and it will go away - the bank will decline the charge and the club will not pursue it with the bank

> And I said “Well can I get a handjob after so it’s a trade?” She said no.

This could be a flirtatious comment if you treated your girlfriend with respect but the rest of your post indicates that you do not view her as a human and you asking for a sexual transaction demonstrates that perfectly.

> I told my friends about details of our sex life. How she likes to get tied up. Slapped. Candle wax. Ect..

Did you ask her if it was okay to share these details with anyone? No? Okay this is a breach of privacy and trust. This just makes you a grade A prick.

> I said she has endometriosis. And got forced into an abortion when she was younger.

Again, breach of privacy and trust. Many women are fine with their medical conditions being disclosed. Did you ask permission to share either of these medical conditions/procedures? No? Okay, Grade A Prick.

> “I don’t know if I feel much for her. My ex broke me and made me numb. If things don’t work I’ll go for her best friend she’s cute “ Meaning my ex’s best friend.

Who is this funny to? It is not, to anyone, particularly your partner. HOW IS THIS FUNNY that you are saying she is second choice. At this point, I am wondering if you are 14... because then this post would made sense.

A joke is something you say to get some laughs. Who laughed at any of these things? Nobody. Maybe your friends laughed at your ex's sexual preferences... they would have been laughing AT her, not WITH her, which means it is a joke AT HER EXPENSE.

You are a piece of garbage. She deserves better.

You didn't fu because of some jokes, you fu'd because you never matured past high school. Don't take that personally, most guys don't really gain substantial maturity till after 25.

What kind of drugs? Do you know?

She wants to end things over your disrespect and immaturity and she would be right to. Jfc man, have some dignity and respect for your partner.

Lmao, you can dispute the transaction. You weren't in a state of mind to approve these charges. And you should quickly have urine sample done to prove all of this. This will be easy to get your money back.

TIL nightstands have asses

Contaminated, maybe. Might have dislodged some tar or resin that hit your lungs wrong. Every so often when I clean my pipe I do that, and that may have been the issue. Or it could have just been an anxiety moment, just a sudden blip of bad feeling. It sometimes happens.

You aren't wrong to decide to be more careful, though.

Um. What? This is Dallas, USA. Get a lawyer. Cops will happily charge you for using drugs, and MAYBE go after the club.

Dispute the changes

>Yeah, but I mean, I was the one who took them. To me, that means I'm involved in the whole thing would it not?

Ask yourself what the crimes are for drugs.
Posession
Distribution
Influence

Now ask yourself how many of those you currently can be charged with, and how many they can currently be charged with.

Also, isn't anything you signed while intoxicated not legally binding? Am I imagining that?

I honestly don’t know why that made her cry haha it was funny & I’d prefer someone responding to a rejection with humor as opposed to tears or something. Maybe she just cried because felt bad.

There are some things I don't like about this. First, flirting with someone through an RPG seems like a bad idea. Just ask them out if you want to date them, and don't creep people out (her or others) by using the roleplaying as an excuse to live out your fantasies.

Second, most people play roleplaying games to experience being someone they aren't. If she is a tiny woman IRL wouldn't it make sense for her to be a hulking brute? You should try playing someone that isn't like yourself sometime, it's very fun and can teach you a lot both about yourself and others.