They are both underage tho...

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OP a word of advice to pas on to your bf

Having nudes of his exes even though he’s a similar age is considered child porn and he can be prosecute as such, at least in the UK, not sure where your based

Tell them to delete them ASAP and do not send/save them until of a legal age, it is not worth having any convictions of the sort for momentary urges

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So yeah you're super young and you admit this is your first bf but your not his his first gf. So yeah, he had had intimate time with people he was close to at the time but that's the past and you have to know your are the present. LPT over sharing us a thing. You asked to see his gallery he showed it. Don't ask questions unless you are prepared for every answer

I dont believe a 13 year old should be dealing with this shit. its ok if you disagree

What?

Every partner is going to have a past. You have to learn to deal with it.

Its not going to change at 16, 20, 30, etc etc...

facts

Somewhere else.

Dude the main ingredients are sorbitol and malitol. You're giving yourself severe diarrhea. I suggest limiting consumption to a few per day. A few icebreakers, not a few packs.

You'll regret not doing something much more than you'll regret doing something, in general.

its cool.

Dude this isn’t your fault, your mom is obviously mentally unstable and really needs help. I’m sorry to say this about your mom but some people truest shouldn’t be parents

In fairness she also is neurodivergent, so sometimes this is actually the best way to detect feelings because you wouldn't be sure otherwise

Your mom is probably depressed and desperate right now. Seems like she and your father have some major financial issues and she's taking responsibility of the debt for your dad's decision, which stressed her out enormously. She needs therapy.

But this is NOT your fault. Having bad grades is not uncommon among kids. You have your kid problem to overcome -- get your grades up, and she got her own problems. But it's not right for her to abandon her kids. I feel she's more trying to get your dad in some way.

You didn't not fuck up, your parents did.

She's probably having a break-down and will collect herself together soon.

Hugs to you and your sister!

The quarantine is hard. Growing up is hard. Moving from elementary school to middle school is hard. It’s extra hard when there’s lots of problems going on at home. Please don’t blame yourself. I’m sure there’s many more reasons to why your mother wants to leave. It sounds cliche, but I promise things will make so much more sense once you’re older. Sending lots of love from Singapore! 🥰

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Firstly, this is a lesson in dealing with the fact that your romantic partners will usually have a past with other partners. In time, you will too. It's completely normal and something you will have to deal with. Still having photos from past relationships isn't a terrible thing, your boyfriend likely still has good memories of the relationship and it's okay to keep mementos of that time. He wasn't taunting you with them or anything.

Secondly, any revealing photos are illegal. He shouldn't be taking them, possessing them, or sharing them with you. He needs to delete those. Don't take any of yourself either. Teenagers have been charged with producing, sharing and possessing those kind of photos.

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Few were them kissing and the video chats screenshots were revealing.. but it's a screenshot so not that clear.. but i can picture it clearly in my head tho.. he was smiling in them

Intimate pictures? Do you just mean photos of them together, or nudes? If it's the latter, that's concerning because it's illegal.

As long as he didn't use the buckle, you'll be fine. I stopped getting whoppings at like 11 or so so I can't relate to a whooping at 16, though...

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