>I wanted a chance where he couldn’t delete anything.

So you knew he wanted to keep it private, and you didn't care. So selfish and nasty.

>how to approach the situation.

Do him a great favour and excuse your disrespectful ass from his life

??

There's an awful lot of kink shaming in this non-shaming post.

Haha I think that would set a really bad precedent. We've talked about it since then. Several times d_d

In my relationship I have full access to his phone as he does mine. However I wanted a chance where he couldn’t delete anything. Also idc that he has this fetish i just wanted to know how to approach the situation.

Should probably have a chat with him then maybe break it off cause it’s not likely that fetish is going away. So you either deal with it and/or move on from it

The real problem in your relationship is that you're creeping on his phone when he's in the shower.

It is NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS what his fetishes are. He chose to keep his preference to himself and you completely ignored his boundaries and privacy.

What the fuck is wrong with you

You don’t need to clean anything. It cleans itself. Anyone who doesn’t get that doesn’t deserve the p

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Bruh last time I checked you can’t win a game you started already lacking

Yes, that is illegal. And in your scenario, both would be facing potential jail time - the girl for solicitation and possession of illicit material, and the boy for production, distribution and possession of illicit material. As for how seriously the authorities take it ... It's very much a case by case scenario, and it's entirely likely that a conviction would happen - which could not only involve jail time, but also require them to be registered as sex offenders.

Get a pedicure and ask him to rub your feet. Lean into it or if you can’t hang with his fetish then maybe move along.

Why not just say "if you cancel your sub, I'll be tour pretty foot model", and probably become the woman he marries lol

I'm sitting here wondering how a kid dresses recognizably as George Washington Carver--I know who he was, but not what he looked like. Giant peanut prop, maybe?

Yes exactly you can be charged with the possession of and distribution of illicit images of a child

Yes, it's concerning, but even then you can still save the relationship. Make sure you talk with him about it all and get how you feel about everything. Hopefully everything ends out ok and it can be nice water under the bridge. Just make sure you aren't sending anything that could be inappropriate, and don't get into anything you'd be uncomfortable with.

How old is your kid? Can you calm their nerves with a white lie, like saying you were playing hide and seek? I normally don’t advocate lying or kids, but it might make them feel better and not feel abandoned

The idea of two children having "intimate" photos makes me wretch...

Please be careful and responsible. Know that nothing is private once it hits the internet and know that possessing anything revealing underage minors is still illegal no matter if you are still a minor yourself.

Don't do anything that can get you screenshot either.

Good luck!

The hero is the one that stays

So, let's say I'm a 12 yo girl and I want a dick pic from a 14 yo boy, who is my boyfriend. So I get the photo and I can be fined or even sent to some kind of jail for having a picture of my older boyfriend's genitalia, that he willingly sent me? I just can't really imagine the situation where the judge would be like "Yeah, you fucking predator, go to jail!"... maybe it's illegal, but don't think they take it too seriously...

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Nobody is telling her to ditch him though

It's the age of the person in the photo that's the crime, the age of the offender is irrelevant.

Still illegal

All the adults here telling this teenager to ditch the boy because it’s not worth it might as well not say anything. She will find out for herself just like most of us did and that’s just the way it goes. You can only hope she grows from it.