Man... I'm not okay with a 12 yo being with a 14 yo... it was an example... Why do you need to be so aggressive? And even tho it's a bad thing to have such an age gap in those teenage years, it exists, there are many relationships like this... I know a lot of girls, who lost their virginity at 11, it's fucking bad, but it happens. And now more often than before, I guess because of the easy access to porn.

Types fluent English (2nd Lang) and uses "The Office" references . 13 yo? Doubt

Even if they're diligent enough to give you a receipt most goodwill/donation places won't ask anything besides whether or not you need a bin for things

Every country I have lived in has had these bins, it's just a case of finding them. Half the time even the locals don't know...!

First of all a 14-year-old should not be dating a 12 year old. There's a huge difference between a freshman and a 6th grader. Why don't you look up the penalties for this? What kind of shitty parent is OK with this?

You can't have a pic because it's child porn. You clearly haven't dealt with the legal system before if you think the judge will say it's not a big deal. Just do a Google search on how many teenagers have been charged with this.

A kid saying my partner takes the cake

because age restrictions are there for a reason. You may not notice yet, but u r still a child

Bingo! That's exactly what I was thinking. Although I can't play Tennis right now, it doesn't stop me from doing Injury Prevention Exercises, which is really important and a commonly overlooked factor of being a tennis player

Its true in the US though depending on the Romeo & Juliet laws of the state it may not be illegal

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Dawg you're movin mad. Ya mans 15 and you're 13? Thats actually wild. The 15 year olds at my brothers get absolutely destroyed for dating even 14 year olds let alone 13? You should find someone closer to your age if I'm keepin it a stack and it absolutely should not be intimate

ooookay so since everyone focusing on freaking out over the pics and nothing else... (which yes, i agree dont send them too each other but we can comment some more) first of all this is WEIRD that he even has those pics. Maybe it's just me and my partner being older, but none of us has any pics of people we used to go out with/sleep with on our phones. it's just... customary, i guess, to delete those after you break up and get over someone. sooo it's more like he's the one who f-ed up, because okay, he didnt want you to see them but for what did he even keep those

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No body hates you.. I think most are just concerned because you are so young.. Its off putting for us older folk to come across a post like this lol..

Plus the child porn stuff doesn't make this post any better even though I'm sure neither of you knew about that being illegal..

Just be careful, protect yourself, and take your time.. Trust me there's plenty of time in life to be an adult, you only have a few short years to be a teen with minimal responsibilities and so just enjoy them 🤗..

If you haven't worn it within the year, it is time to donate it.

Go to goodwill shop. "My niece died. I have no idea what's worth keeping. Can you take this stuff off my hands?"

Or come out of the closet..

No-one at goodwill will question you, for all they know you're dropping stuff off for your mom. Also I'm not sure because I'm in the UK, but here we have clothing donation bins when you just drop off the bag, no human interaction. As to the bras it depends on store, here if they've still got labels on and clearly unworn then I think they can be donated?

goodwill is always a good place to donate but there’s also clothing exchanges or donations for trans and gender non conforming people both online (will try to find my bookmarked source for this but i saved it a while back) and sometimes for local areas depending on your location ! whenever i’m getting rid of clothes i always try to see if anyone there can use them first because when i was first thinking about transitioning i survived off of donated clothes worn in secret

In case you are wondering, I'm 17 and my gf will be 17 in a few months.

Remember, the e is silent

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Okay guys, I just had a question... no need to be so aggressive with those downvotes... In my country this doesn't gets charged, especially not jail time... I'm guessing you guys are from the US, I'm not.

OK, thank you, I thought I was an old fart. I don't think she means intimate, like intimate, I hope.

I'm old but hardly a prude and it concerns me you are talking like this at 13.