Wow what a shame, do you have any link tho

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Dude, why are people being total assholes? Be honest with him. If you feel it's weird and you're not into it, just tell him. If you don't mind but really only mind about the OF's thing then say it. Clearly he's embarrassed. You fucked up and snooped through his history and found it... Oh well, don't do it again.

Though there are exceptions! I keep itching to purge my closet of unworn items, but I was pregnant and then breastfeeding for the last year. I keep having to remind myself that I will get back to my regular clothes in a few more months, and then it will be the maternity/nursing clothes that need to go. Since it sounds like OP doesn't get to wear any of these clothes very often, there may be plenty of stuff that hasn't been worn in a year but is still worth keeping.

Wow, what a total waste of a post

I thought I was on r/copypasta when I saw the ages

this was super underwhelming for an XL flair

And even if, what are they gonna do? Talk to their coworkers about that boy that donated women clothes? They wouldn't even recognize you the next time you come in if you're coming back in the first place. Maybe they even pick out something for themselves. They couldn't care less.

You can 100 percent donate bras that are in good shape! In my area in the midwest there's a ton of big brothers big sisters donation bins for clothes that go to teens, I like donating good quality clothes to those. People also mentioned charities for trans people to exchange clothes, those shouldn't be too hard to find if there are any in your area. My area also has a homeless shelter with a section specifically for women escaping abusive situations that i like to donate things like that to. Goodwill will definitely accept the bras if they're in good shape so don't throw those out, they're an item that's in high demand.

A women’s shelter might be a good choice?

Goodwill's charity is intended for the good of their workers, not the good of their shoppers. There's plenty about the organization that merits criticism, but don't look to charitable thrift stores to be the cheapest. The idea is that their sales turn into job training and placement.

I agree. How OP thinks that they could hide a ton of women’s clothes from family members while they lived in one room is beyond me. Dude, they know they just aren’t saying anything.

Donate the clothes (including bras) to a local charity. If they ask what you’re donating just say clothes. They don’t know who’s or anything else unless you volunteer the info so don’t.

I’m, personally, not a fan of donating to Goodwill. Goodwill is listed as a non-profit company but the prices they charge in their secondhand stores says otherwise. You need retail money to shop there and that’s of no service to someone in need.

Oh my god!

Um where are your parents seriously? When I was 13 I made a lot of regrets, I ruined my most prized possession because of a 16 year old. Now I WISH I didn’t, I wish I would have saved my prized possession to share it with someone I TRUST, LOVED and felt appreciated by.

I think you need to really think hard on your choices, your thoughts and feelings. Love at 13 can only go so far and there will be so many heart breaks, please do your self a favor and save those heartbreaks for someone you will remember 14 years from now.

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What about a place that will actively use and greatly appreciate your donation like a domestic violence shelter? Women leaving abusive situations do not always have time to grab things. Or is there a trans teen shelter in your area? They always need things for kids who get kicked out of their homes for who they are.

Goodwill does good things, but so many of their donations are trashed it isnt funny. Among other organizational defects.

Why don’t you sell the stuff that’s in good shape and try to get some of the money back

Well, no. They don’t. But either way I’m not the one over here feeding gerbils to cats. (Adding, they’re also clearly not at a distance anyway if they were coming up to OP, so. Not sure how that’s even relevant.)

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Yay pride

Yeah right

Cus Yass

Yeah

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