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I started when I was very young, like when I was 8 or 9. I always had a fascination with women’s clothing but I think like many cross dressers, I began by exploring my sisters or moms stuff; which as an adult now I know was wrong but as a kid I didn’t know any better. I think that contributes to the shame I feel when crossdressing and doesn’t help with accepting myself as a crossdresser. Not to mention my parents never really accepted me as a crossdresser. Eventually someone close finds out, it’s inevitable. I think my parents accept the idea of me being a crossdresser but they don’t actually accept ME as a crossdresser if that makes sense. As an adult I don’t really feel the need for their approval or acceptance anymore, but as a child that was very hurtful.

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Ah. Yes, I had forgotten that part which is extremely important here.

Can relate a little bit. I once used mint sope as lube to jerk it while in the shower and my pee pee hole felt like some one shoved down a thin hot metal pipe

“What did you do stalk my page?”

Coming from the person who stalked their bf’s phone while they weren’t there

Put backpack in a pillowcase and tied with cord. Put into the washing machine.

Also, menstrual discs. You can hump during your period without worrying about things becoming a crime scene.

In case of emergency, pick one Get Out of Jail Free Card:

A) lost my device

B) left my device on public transit

C) device was stolen

D) i have unbridled Internet access, what did you expect?

You’re being too naive they know and don’t care

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Have you considered resale sites like thredup or poshmark? Make a little $ while keeping clothing out of landfills 😀

Jesus Christ how do you get to however old you are before learning that you’re not supposed to put soap up there holy hell

OP, I don't recommend selling the clothes unless you have kept the receipts for them. A friend of mine listed some old clothes for sale online and the police tried to bring her in for questioning. Apparently it's fairly common for shoplifters to steal things and then sell them online. Most people don't just have the receipts lying around.

Nothing came of it, because she wasn't a thief, and wasn't dumb enough to volunteer for their little fishing expedition. But it's still risky.

There is no reason anyone would question you donating clothes though.

I had been searching but was finding articles with big name donation organizations of other states. I just searched "shelter donations near me", and found many places. Thanks, I will look into those.

Yeah, but then baby number two comes around and you are kicking yourself for getting rid of the maternity clothes, lol.

Yes! All this! I have a women’s shelter that I donate to. Its all very clandestine to keep the women there safe (often cases of domestic violence). The send a person to meet me in a random always different parking lot, and then take the clothes back to a warehouse which then sorts thru them and delivers to the women. I always feel like I am in a super secret spy movie when dropping things off!

thought this was gonna be moth related b/c moths are always the sign my clothing hoarding is out of control

This account is kind of a throwaway. I changed some details.

If there’s a queer centered clothing donations center in your area absolutely no one would question you. Hell, at a thrift shop they wouldn’t question you either. I’d try to stay away from goodwill and the Salvation Army bc they are questionable orgs.

At this point I am aware that they probably sort of know, but they have never caught me dressed up. However, I have to say that upon the day that I started putting clothes in plain sight, they never suspected a thing. I did laundry when I went out and kept it as hidden as possible.

But yeah, I don't think they're that naive.

I mean sure, but she's a child and she did something wrong and received a punishment. I don't agree with him hitting her but for some households, that's the punishment. if it was a closed fist or anything like that then yes, 100 percent abuse but it wasn't.

You'll probably want vacuum bags.

And thanks for reminding me of where to send mine. I bought a few online and don’t fit. I’ll be sending them off tomorrow.

Not me, remembering the time I was 14 and homeless.. I was in a neighbourhood that had bags of donations out the front of their homes, ready for pick up.. I cried when I found a bra and it fit me. Still needed safety pins but luckily I had some. Wore that bra for nearly two years, patching it up when it broke and I had a needle and thread.