this. you did absolutely nothing wrong and should not have gone in sick either.

Not the point, THFU because he is, or at least should be, aware of his SO's insecurities, which is why we are here. Savage, for sure. Too Savage, in this instance, yes.

I'm not here to talk about hypotheticals

I’m glad you know you fucked up, but just the fact that that was your first reaction shows what an asshole you are. She phrased it perfectly reasonably and was vulnerable with you and you crushed her. I hope she dumps you.

My boy ain't no simp

Sometimes it takes a little pain to really learn a lesson. If he's really the love of her life she will realize she was wrong and apologize.

Big true.

I hope these people are teenagers, for my sanity.

But would it be too savage for someone in control of their feelings?

Imo if you can’t trust your partner to be friends with their exes you should probably dip. That relationship ended for a reason, and they’re with you. If they’re going to cheat it’ll happen regardless of what you try to control.

Just control the things you can like how you treat each other.

“I’ve had a sexual past but now you’re the love of my life and the rest of that doesn’t matter. But don’t you dare have Social Media with a childhood friend!!!” Boohoo.

It was too savage for his girl which is why we're here.

Savage, but too savage? Nah.

She feels bad about her sexual history, yet she tries to make you feel bad about following a childhood friend of the opposite sex on Instagram. There is no fuckup here, you clapped her back properly and she couldn't handle it.

I mean, you're not wrong, it's a bit hypocritical of her to call you out for being friends, when she's still friends with exes. Maybe you went a little overboard with the whole "inside you" thing, but it definitely isn't something you need to see a therapist over.

You're clearly young, so just understand that communication is key in any relationship. Just talk to her like she talked to you. Tell her how you're feeling. No one is perfect.

Would be hilarious if her mom was an actual sex worker

So she's allowed to comment on one friendship but you can't comment on her multiple friendships? You need to think and be honest with yourself if her past will always bother you. Do you think you could hold your tongue during a heated argument and not bring the issue up? And if she goes to hang out with a friend she's slept with would that bother you?

Honestly, I think you attempted to do what you felt was justified. Usually with new sick policies, a manager is supposed to let all employees know with a verbal acknowledgement first, then for you to understand and sign it- either in person or electronically.

So sending out a randomly-timed email to a personal account makes her also accountable, and it can get messy- such as your situation. And yes we may accidentally put an abundance of mixed messages in the trashcan.

I will say though, your mother shouldn't have intervened. You are 17, still young, but do have to create some backbone/independence when defending your sick day, as you are entering the workforce and sometimes can be taken for granted.

All in all, I think with what you had, you did what was justified.

Naa, you've done nothing wrong. She keeps in touch with exes and doesn't want you to?

She's a complete hypocrite and it was a fair comment.

Right?

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The clap back was too savage bro

You didn't fuck up, she's just being a hypocrite. If she's going to bring up your past then you have every right to bring up hers.

Y’all are both toxic tbh