Yeah but there's more diplomatic ways of saying it. Pick and choose your battles, else ye will be constantly battered by the waves.

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Yeah … you fucked up.

She’s a little jealous, that’s normal. You’re both friends with exes. That’s also normal.

Apologize, profusely. Take her out to do something that neither of you have ever done before. A first for you both. Make that memory.

You both suck. She's a hypocrite and you're shaming her for her sex life.

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don't be so hard on yourself, your mother sounds toxic as fuck....At your age family doesn't end with blood, it's who you choose to love and ad to your life. build yourself a new family that loves you for who you are. good luck !

That's the part of this that feels dodgy to me

Just all sounds a bit immature

You didn't fuck up, her behaviour is toxic as fuck and your response was justified.

Major L take

She's being hypocritical and hypersensitive. You could have phrased it better (and should have) but she overreacted.

it bothers you to know she's been with others.

she's jealous of a social media relations w/ a friend from the past.

she feels guilty for her past (see point #1 for possible cause)

it's like you 2 are in a competition to throw the most red flags.

neither of you sound remotely mature enough to be in a relationship.

"your mom's a hoe"

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is not an edgy joke, dumbass.

I would have said the same thing bro bro

They both use instagram, and this is what they're arguing about. Can't be that old. 20's or younger is my guess.

A lot of relationships don’t end with toxicity though. Mature people can easily sustain a friendship with a previous partner if the break was clean and mutual.

I know she’s your first love man but you need to get out of their asap before things get actually ugly and you get your heartbroken

Y'all must be young. Good luck homie.

You didnt fuck up. She is friends with her exes and others who were just fuck buddies / ONS but it’s a Problem that you are Friends with one woman who you have zero history with?

Bro, this isn’t YOUR fuck up, it’s HERS

Sounds like she’s a bit of a hypocrite.

Oof

Super curious how old they are

Clapped her harder than the two other guys did

I had pretty much the same conversation with an ex of mine, I used to say shit like op all the time cuz it pissed me off she still talked to and was fb friends with her ex’s. We broke up cuz of it and she ended up going to be with the one she still actually talked to

Yeah and any belief system that treats women as being worth less because they've had sex is a misogynistic one.

Edit to add: this should go without saying but a woman's value has ZERO percent to do with their vagina