I’m with everyone else here, My Guy. You’re fine. I thought your post was going in a completely different direction honestly. You did the right thing as far as I’m concerned. It’s okay if you’re still friends with someone who had your attention as a kid. I’m still friends with someone that had my attention as a kid, and the same thing happened to us. We grew older, dated other people and developed different values over time. It happens, but it doesn’t mean that you should just stop being friends with that friend because you’re in a relationship. Know what I mean? She can’t be telling you who you can have as friends and justify it by her being “jealous” especially if she’s still friends with people who have slept with her. That’s a very toxic mentality she’s got. In fact, I’d even ask her about why she thinks it’s okay to still be friends with them. Hell if I were you, I wouldn’t even worry about sugarcoating it. If she wants to dish it out, by all means give it to her.

Why did u even apologize though.You should have been like "yes i said it ,what u gonna do about it "

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That’s a fu on her, not you.

Aw man I wanted to read this :(

Yess

You didn't fuck up.

Not a FU, your GF is learning the uncomfortable reality that you're on a 2-way street

Bro you did nothing wrong… she will get over it. The fact she told you to unfollow your childhood friend who you did nothing with, but follows people she has fucked makes no sense why she would bring it up.

Bpd?

Just adding to this^ well worded comment. It sounds like you guys are both trying to be “pure” in some way for each other. As long as there’s no std in play, or child somewhere, this shouldn’t even be a discussion but if it is, it should be to say, “whatever led you to me I’m thankful for.”

Look at his account

You two......sound young

Equal rights brother

I don’t think you did anything wrong. Hopefully it’ll blow over. If not, she might be on another level dramatically than you.

Why be tactful with someone whos clearly manipulating OP?

People are just jumping through hoops to not call hookups hookups.

Same here brother never again, recipe for disaster once it’s not sunshine and rainbows

Is this your “fiance” from your other post? Y’all ain’t ready to get married lmfao.

It was hurtful and hits on an insecurity and no reason OP should have gotten that defensive. It would have been far calmer to stick with how she's friends with her exes and ask how it's different. Let people die on their hypocrisy or see the error of their ways. Getting nasty won't help a relationship.

I'm guessing she realized she was being petty pretty quick too.

Some of y'all are so quick with anger and revenge. o.O

Bingo. If he conceded on this, then it opens the floodgates for her to behave in a way that he never would

How did you fuck up? She fucked up by having rules for thee but not for me (her in this case)

I wouldn't have apologized. Having been in situations like this .. she brought it upon herself, trying to pin you against the wall about one friend you had feelings for a looooong time ago. But she's still friend with her exes? Nice.

No shame in having a big body count. No one's who they were in the past. But she shouldn't have tried to make you feel some kind of way for having someone as a friend still. It's stupid. Social media is stupid.

Yeah hypocritical behaviour is a red flag. I'm assuming you are like 17 or something get out

Meh.