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ch36h8 t1_iuj5vjv wrote

omggg. the same thing happend to me, only difference is that i didn’t even like the person as a friend and kinda ghosted them. now i regret this, as it was a pretty shitty thing to do, so i don’t recommend doing that. i think you should say something like “i’m sorry, i f*cked up, can we be friends?”

wish you good luck. i know it’s very hard 😕

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Ejsberg t1_iuj4szd wrote

I feel sad for you.. but I do have to say that your stupidity here has crossed all borders. Why on earth would you hide 15K worth of Silver in a place that is used by family members when you first hand know about their debts and problems. And secondly, who the hell doesn't even bother to check the items for months ?

I think this is a very valuable lesson learnt.

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Mode-Klutzy t1_iuj223p wrote

Lol, brings me back to when I went to Spencer’s for the first time 😂. I was never embarrassed, just slightly like cringed or barely grossed when I went to the back wall. You know the back wall… heck, nowadays (back like 3 years ago til now) I can walk in there with my mother and feel no embarrassment or weirded out. We crack jokes for literally like 5 minutes and go find something stupid and funny for a cousin’s birthday/holiday present (don’t worry, my family is like this, I’m just sharing the story when I’m with my mother because it seems like most teens and early 20’s hate being seen in public with their mother/parents). I’m that kind of guy who is comfortable literally almost anywhere. What hurts me/makes me sad is that of everyone I know, there’s only one girl I can literally basically do what you did with your friends. Others seem to opt out. I don’t know why though 🤷‍♂️

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monstblitz t1_iuizwwm wrote

How long ago did this happen? How old are both of you? If it's a really close friendship - just give him time to cool off and apologize again. If he can't forgive you for words, then he was never that good a friend. Close friendships are built on lifetimes of overstepping! There's an old saying that goes, "familiarity breeds contempt." I don't think it goes that far, but we tend to pick on the people we know best the worst. Just the way it goes wrong or right. I think he'll get over it and you'll be fine.

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