Save all of the tik tok videos, and IG vids... anything that him or his friends post about you that can even be misconstrued as bullying! Including all the texts you still have. That way if they were to try and harm you in any way... you have an air tight case.

Do not make false accusations about him, such as yall sleeping together and such.

The reality is you may not get the necklace back, and that's an expensive lesson to learn. You seem to have a good head on your shoulders. Your still crazy young. Your gunna find quite a few more loves out there before you find the "one"!... take it easy... you have time!

Awful nasty straight people

Wow, I'm just now reading the initial story and then this update. I'm so, so sorry for what you've been put through. Frankly it's so repulsive and honestly emotionally abusive and toxic even if he's covering up to save face with his friends. Like, I'm struggling to frame in my own mind how anyone could even begin to come up with this "prank" let alone execute it from Summer till Harvest season.

Just remember that the trolls live under the bridge, but you are the rarest rose. Big sister hug 🌈❤️🧡💛💛💚💙💜

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You can't pull out the uno reverse card on him? Y'all made out and held hands and stuff...sounds like he's pretty gay.

I've read all your posts on this, I don't know what to say except you're a legend and advocating for yourself in your situation must have been horrendously difficult but you spoke to his mother which is a huge accomplishment mate. Respect.

While very, very few of us ever face anything like what you've been through recently, most of us do at some point have a really awful experience that turns love into total chaos. You'll be alright. Just keep being strong, sincerely - you're an impressive guy.

>She would then message me later that night that she isn't able to force her son to give the necklace back, but she's terribly sorry and that Skyler is staying at his Dad's for the time being.

I don't understand why she isn't able to force her son to give the necklace back. She's his mom and has authority over him. She can definitely get that necklace back if she tried.

You can record the IG live with your phone and take it to school. In some locations, what students do outside of school against other students is consider bullying. It doesn't have to happen inside the school for them to take actions.

I would go to a school counselor, give them the videos, tell them how they all did a dare and what this guy did (pretending to be your BF). They are all in school and this also went on in school too. Maybe pressure from all of that, he'll give you the necklace back. This can potentially go on their records and it would be shared with colleges.

That's what I would do.

Teenagers are pretty horrible, they’d do anything out of pettiness or just to impress their friends. Id say be careful about that friend group in general. Stay safe dude and hope this gets resolved peacefully

I'm sorry to say this, but the people from legal advice are going to say the same thing. If it's a gift, you cannot legally force him to give it back. The only way he would give it back would be if you confronted him.

Sorry for what happened. You are stronger than most by confronting his mother

Thanks you for that reassurance. I know I probably will find love again, and that it was naive of me to think this one would last forever. But, I hadn’t ever felt love like that before, I genuinely thought it was my once in a lifetime love.

I understand that this is an incredibly difficult thing to have to go through, and I feel terrible for you situation. You were giving so much love and trust and someone violated that. But if it helps at all, know that this is just one chapter in many and the love you have to offer to offer can still flourish for many others!

You don't really have a claim to recover a gift, unfortunately

Good luck to you. You got this and will get through it.

Literally the exact same process for myself!

What can I do though that’s the thing. I feel so helpless regarding it

The gift was given on a premise of bad faith. He has no right to keep it.

You could small claims him. You might not win but it will put a public face to him for all the world to see.

Thank you! I’ve thought of multiple directions to take such as going to his dad, but that probably would’ve gotten me hate crimed.

Don't mind thise stupid people at school who just made fun of you. You are literally so much better than your ex boyfriend who tricked you. As for the necklace, hopefully you get it back. Try your best to ignore those people who are making you feel bad like making fun of you etc because like karma's gonna bite them back in the future. Also btw all actions you've decided to take are amazing so far.

I was brought to this post because I randomly remembered the tiktok and as soon as I check you posted woah

I was you two years ago. Boundaries with my mother are key. I sent mine an email. But you have to tell her or she will keep doing it. Good luck.

Maybe you should go speak to a therapist or something, you should be able to stand up for yourself and be honest. It’s dangerous to simply let things happen to you that make you feel uncomfortable because it could impact you in the long run.

Haha I know. That phrase has become an inside joke for us. We say it all the time now.

Honestly, it's just so weird to me thinking about me doing something I don't remember. Like if she had taken a video of it, I would have been watching something I did in real life for the first time. It's strange.

Honesty

wow i probably shouldnt have laughed at this 😲