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fishywiki t1_ivxhbo6 wrote

When I first started donating in College, many moons ago, it was normal to be given a Guinness afterwards. I never heard of that causing any negative episodes, although I suppose it's possible. It sounds like you had plenty to eat and had only a single beer, so I suspect this is a good example of conflating correlation with causation.

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The_Dirtiest_Doc t1_ivxe8t2 wrote

friend told me one day that a mutual friend got caught by this. Then told me that this is how he knows that this mutual friend really likes to get pegged. So I guess sometimes they will send it. Personally I would just keep sending more, like really raunchy yet artistic stuff that the scammers do not want to see. I gotta let my friends and family know I have a creative side.

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ZeroVultan t1_ivxdmlw wrote

Talk to a close pal about this. They will understand, a lot of people have been in this kinda situation (being blackmailed in someway by a stranger claiming to have incriminating pictures).

High chance it is an empty threat. There is a chance you could flip this by threatening back with some law knowledge.

Getting a bit fkd up and sending some pics to a willing recipient is fine, blackmailing is a crime, don't give the fuckers money, threaten them with time.

(Disclaimer: I don't know where you live, and have not personally been in this situation, that's why I recommend speaking to a close friend, so you can hash it out. Don't be embarrassed and silent, that's the best mechanism for the scammers getting money)

Good luck OP!

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Jelly0nToast t1_ivxcnjr wrote

well, as far as advice for you, get this ex guy OUT of ur life. he/they are providing nothing for u. also, u know what ur personal problems are more than anyone. recognizing them and find a want to improve is the first step to getting better. humans are social creatures, and when a social contract/relationships trust is breached, the consequences are grave for those involved.

which coincidentally is also true for how you treated L. look, if you don’t deserve to be treated devilishly by your ex (and no matter what you think right now, u dont), L doesnt deserve to be treated poorly by you.

probably just focus on yourself for a while. its incredibly difficult if not impossible to have a healthy, intimate relationship if you are in a really bad place. take some time away from relationships to learn about yourself, your flaws and your positives.

best of luck,

  • some random fucking stranger on the internet.

p.s.: be well

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enricobasilica t1_ivxb05x wrote

Not sure where you are, but your blood donation materials are seriously lacking. Here they advise you not to drink for 1-2 days ideally, and certainly not 2 hours after donating (!!!) regardless of how much you've eaten.

People, dont be this guy. When you donate, dont drink the same day - simple as!

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fistbumpbroseph t1_ivxa7hs wrote

Yar. You have records. Snapchat disappears for users but law enforcement can get logs, including IP addresses. Same with Reddit. If they leak, immediately get a lawyer if you can, or go straight to the cops for revenge porn with every bit of info you have. Even if they're running a VPN there's always a chance they are either using a bad one or made a mistake and there will be a real IP to be found.

Now, I can't tell you how hard the authorities will work on your behalf, but the more evidence you can provide, the more likely they are to follow it through to conclusion. Don't worry about being embarrassed. It takes REAL balls to show photos of your balls to the cops to find the fucker who blackmailed you.

(Edit: typo)

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slickMilw t1_ivx9lqy wrote

OK so smart mirrors are made from 1 way glass, right? Where'd you get the first piece of glass? Is there any glass shops near you? Also there's a product called 'one way mirror film' available on Amazon. That could also work on a reg piece of glass.

I spent a lot of time in manufacturing. This stuff happens. It's best to focus on the solution to your new uninvited problem.

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KendoUnmercy t1_ivx9aoy wrote

Dude you are literally learning responsabilitya. Contact you teacher, explain it, you can even show him images and project, you can ask for help, nothing wtong with that.

You fked up, but not even close to the end of your future.

Thats how life works, next time you gonna be EXTRA careful.

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ouzo84 t1_ivx8baz wrote

Unless the photos are of you doing something illegal, like with kids or animals or dead people, you really don’t need to worry.

If they do send the photos, your friends and family are going to be surprised but almost everyone looks at porn (including your parents) so it’s probably nothing they have not seen before.

If it does involve something illegal, you should report the attempted blackmail to police to stop the blackmailer doing something like this to other people, and you would have to accept the consequences of your actions.

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