Take it from someone who has been there a time or ten, consider this a learning experience and move on. Life is not meant to be lived in rewind; you should always be moving forward. Take the lesson and move on with my best wishes for a bright future.

Real relationships don't have anything to do with peer pressure. Your 'friend' called her ugly and instead of defending her you leave her. 100% good for her. She don't deserve a bf who acts like that

This is gonna sound harsh but good for her not getting stuck with someone who can't stand up for her.

Also you're 19. You're still very young and understandably immature. This is not the end of the world and I guarantee you that those six months will feel like a blip years from now when you're with the right person. You've learned an important lesson and the pain you feel now is growth.

Good for her. For real, she doesn't deserve that.

Nice

You're 19, you haven't missed the love of your life. She is better off without you though.

You need to do some growing up before you consider going into serious relationships.

Sucks but you’re gonna have to move on bud. May take awhile seeing how you’ve got that pent up anger/regret. Cheers to a smooth(er) recovery!

Sounds like you have a while lot of maturing to do before you "date" anyone

Lol my eyes got ruined by lasik. Take care of your eyes.

Shit happens

Sounds like Eugene in TWD.

🤣🤣🤣 I'll try my best. I was traumatized ngl

Glad you’re okay and that doesn’t sound toxic… sounds caring

Nice one

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Bleach splashed in my eye once. I thought I was going blind because my vision completely clouded over. Extremely painful. I took an ambulance to the hospital and was treated for a chemical burn. The ophthalmologist told me bleach was worse than acid getting my eye.

Sorry your parents brushed you off. That was a legit medical emergency. Glad you are ok now.

Watching a screen doesn't inherently hurt eyes - but it can cause them to harden into a short focal length rather than a long one when they age.

I remember when I accidentally got a bunch of Milo powder in my eye, I was terrified since my vision went blurry after that. My parents told me to rinse my eye and my mom tried blowing in it. It went red but eventually I could see again but it still hurt for a couple of weeks. I'm still afraid to deal with powders of any kind

Fortunately enough, eyes are quite resilient. It takes a decent amount of damage to permanently alter vision.

Which is also frightening when you consider how many people hurt their eyes on the daily watching a screen (me included)

Natural selection at it's finest

I don't think sexual preference really comes into it. As a guy, I wouldn't go hook up with a female friend after she'd broken up with a partner and reached out for support.

So you are going to touch any glue that ever existed? That's a pretty impressive feat if you manage to pull that off

Damn thats crazy. Glad your ok

Yeah there are still some big question marks there. I guess my point though is that if the story we heard is true and if we gave OP the benefit of the doubt then maybe homeboy wasn’t as straight as we were lead to believe. According to OP is was straight guys idea to drink with him. Maybe it just went further than he expected and now his form of denial is to attack OP. I’m thinking about this situation too much for having to stake in it lol. I just can’t wrap my head around “accidentally” having sex with a male friend.

You go to a close friend for emotional support, you don't expect them to take advantage of your vulnerability.

OP has been (I suspect deliberately) vague on how 'one thing led to another'.

Suspiciously sounds like rape.