I don't get how I'm the bad guy for saying you shouldn't wear a butt plug in public.

Most TIFU's are fictional, so no need to get that worked up lmfao

I thought I was having deja vu

I might get down voted to hell for this, but how is this too early?? Relationships now move pretty fast. It’s not wrong or a fuck up to want to establish boundaries early in to the relationship. That’s how you just weed out people who will inadvertently end up wasting your time if you’re both looking for different things. Sounded like he just wanted to keep things simple where you wanted something more serious. Having your boundaries or wants of a relationship brought out in the open means you each start establishing your intentions for the relationship.

I’ve had people establish their boundaries by the first or second date and it caught me off guard for sure. But it’s starting to become a norm now, don’t see anything wrong with it. If you’re FaceTiming and texting everyday for a month, I really don’t see how that was early. Everyone will be different, everyone will be used to different things. And for sure everyone will be looking for different things. It’s just a matter of putting it out there so you know you find someone that wants the same level of relationship you are looking for.

I posted it in a restricted R18 subreddit over 5 months ago. Also the incest in question (which I think there was only 1 title that had it) is fictional.

Huh this story again

Is "wearing" the right term?

Not that I have a better option.

Yes, it sucks. It can be hard to make a wise decision when you want to make a decision based on your feelings.

Glass butt plug would have fixed this situation

So you think posting incest (which is an actual crime most places) to a forum accessible by children is acceptable but a woman who has a butt plug in completely unbeknownst to anyone is a corrupting influence. Got it.

You should have just owned it. "Yes I'm wearing a butt plug, what's the problem?"

I think there's a clear difference between posting hentai on the internet in the appropriate sub for it and wearing a butt plug in public. Do you think people should be allowed to masturbate in public?

You couldn’t just leave?

Should have told them you had pierced privates.

Dude, your profile is filled with incestuous horny manga. What the fuck are you on about?

TIL Museums can provide butt plug doggie bags.

Why are you advocating for public indecency

Glass houses my friend. Glass houses.

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Wtf did they make you take it out. Creepy as fuck.

Next time tell them it's a mental plate from an operation and let them pat you down

Some of you are weird as fuck bruh

And then they looked in the bag and saw the plug.

😂best TIFU ever. What did your friend have to say?

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There is nothing wrong with wanting/asking for exclusivity. If he doesn't want it then you very well might not be a good fit for each other. Don't be pressured into accepting something that you don't want as you may get hurt.

If he says no to exclusivity and you stay with him, and you at some point find out he has been with someone else, how will you take it?