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Are your nails really long or sharp? I have never cut myself wiping. I’m not saying it’s impossible but it sounds like it’s a regular occurrence for you, and I don’t really understand how it could be lol.

Regardless, I’m so sorry and I hope you get better soon 💕

Honestly though the lesson kind of is both things if you're a woman. There's just too many folds down there to completely remove all the hair yourself with a regular razor and no mirror or assistance. I really recommend either using more of like a beard trimmer (they also make bikini trimmers for this) which will make it much harder to severely injure yourself or just waxing if smoothness is necessary for your personal style/hygiene needs. It's really dangerous to cut your labia as you've learned OP. I hope you feel better soon. Between UTIs and different sore type things i can imagine how you must feel and it does hurt literally every time you pee. I'm so sorry. 💜

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I can barely stand walking around with a turd in my rectum how the fuck are you walking around with a metal buttplug up your balloon knot?

These only fan click bait posts are getting stupid.

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What a load of bull. Brand new reddit account this is only post. 20f posts something sexual. Already had the Onlyfans link in her profile.

She's just drumming up business for her online prostitution.

It seems like the lesson is not “don’t cut yourself” (especially since it’s impossible to stop accidents from happening), but “don’t let a wound go uncleaned”, since that’s actually within your power.

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Genital piercing jewelry usually doesn’t set off security alarms

To clarify in case it's a wee bit too obscure, I fully get it's hard to stop with porn, hell, I just couldn't help but laugh at the concept of something being "hard" while talking about people being horny.

hilarious, gross, and stupid kinky.

Enveloping would be suitable but it's a bit lush for daily conversation.

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At least you're not a guy.

Instead of being embarrassed that people knew you're having a little naughty fun, a guy would feel embarrassed because people would think of him as a creep.

Wear googles and a lab coat

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Ofcourse its hard, as someone who has reduced porn consumption, its one of the very difficult things I had to do. But what it'll do is it'll increase novelty in regular sex so you don't go around the internet spending frivolous money

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A lot of good advice I've seen, but just to add to it:

It isn't just about a "timeline", I would also make sure that the both of you discuss what you might want out of this relationship: "are you liking how things are going?" "I am in a place where I want to be more serious, are you also in that place?" "Are you looking for something serious or something casual?" I know that can be a heavy conversation (you're both adults, though, and having a slightly heavy conversation should be doable and understandable after a month of dating, if he can't have such a conversation then that's a huge red flag), but if this guy just wants something casual and isn't planning on getting serious for a while and you want to be serious then you may want to start dating other guys. Definitely its both of y'alls decisions/feelings that need to be addressed. There's nothing wrong with him wanting something casual, but if it's not what you want (or if you don't want to wait for months or years down the road) then theres nothing wrong with that either. As long as everyone is respectful and understanding you can still be friends but choose to date others.

My partner and I became exclusive within a couple weeks of meeting but it's because we both wanted that. I've had many friends who took years to be exclusive but it's because, again, they both weren't ready for exclusivity at that point in their lives. It usually only gets bad when people want different things and different levels of commitment with no plans or expectations of change in the near future.

Ultimately, if this guy is ghosting you or scared off because you were ready to commit before he was then that's pretty sad. I guess I'm not sure how "butt hurt" or "defensive" you got, but it's also understandable you felt a little disappointed and upset. How bad was your reaction? You weren't throwing things or cussing him out or anything right? You likely wouldn't want someone who can't understand that other people have different desires, wants, and needs and being in a relationship (even just at the casual dating phase) is about respecting, understanding, mediating, and supporting those differences. Don't be scared to let the other person know that you want to be more serious, you just have to also respect if they don't want to be serious in return.

My post is hidden behind 2 R18 verification walls, whoever accessing the content is 18 or they are breaking the law.

What you seem to not understand is that the buttplug is concealed. Your post is publicly accessible. Masterbating in public and having an item concealed in an intimate place while in public is completely different. If op didn't walk through a metal detector no-one would've known. So masterbating in public isn't ok obviously, but a buttplug (you can find it strange but that's about it) is not the same thing. Would you consider a clitpiercing masterbation? Is a Prince Albert masterbation? Is smuggling cocaine in your ass masterbation? Is exposing yourself publicly ok as long as your not stimulating yourself? Is lighting your farts in fire for a funny video with your mates masturbation or just banter? Where do you draw the line, exactly? As long as no-one can see it and no-one is harmed by it, it should be ok right?