I could see where this could go really good or really bad

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you are not being treated fairly. you gave your gf an honest answer to a question she chose to ask you. if you're experiencing this much stress now you may want to consider the longevity of your relationship.

> she said she finally understood where my sexual fantasy came from because she had the same fantasy now, except in her fantasy, there are no dicks.

Right here is your answer. You didn't mention your gf is bi or curious ?? That might explain the mind-play.

Impatiently awaiting inevitable update - TIFU by turning my now ex-girlfriend gay

None of that has obviously happened

That is hurtful and manipulative of her. You need to let her know how it is making you feel and leave if it doesn't stop. I am so sorry

Interesting fantasy. Need to check rule no 34.

For God’s sake throw the sticks away you idiot. I think this post is phoney as fuck.

Like others, there is red flags all over this.

Had to do a double check to see if she was 18 because this is really immature behavior from her.

Seriously though, don't victim blame yourself. You didn't fuck up and you didn't do anything wrong. She should not be policing your thoughts and it was completely inappropriate of her to meet with your coworker.

After your inevitable breakup, Don't forget it's not wrong to be honest. Your sexual fantasy is nothing to be ashamed of, don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

That would be the worst decision ever on his part if he agreed to it.

Red flags, trust issues, and just rude in general. To be fair, it's understandable to be a little jealous or concerned that your significant other is cheating in the situation you described, but regardless the way she approached it is just straight up manipulative. It still seems possible they're fucking with you, entirely depends on their intonations that can't properly be described through text. But ultimately, talk to your gf about it, tell her how you feel and how what she did is making you feel currently, and if she can't understand that then idk what to tell you bro, might not be the best relationship to be in

Mental abuse? How do yall even function is this world.

When I see posts like this I wonder if years down the line the kid will find his dad's reddit account and cringe into outer space.

>Something about this post is really weirding me out. Maybe just treat people like people and don't have all these standards listed out in advance or ideas of who is and isn't worthwhile. If you click, you click. It's kind of just that.

100% wrong.

This would be how you "date" or get a girlfriend, then end up in your 30s no different then your 20s with someone you wouldn't want to spend your life with.

Everyone should have standards and should try to better understand themselves and their standards. You are essentially just suggesting letting the chemicals evolved to effect short term mating be the sole decider of long term decisions. Its a childish approach to essentially just wing it.

>Edit: I looked into your comment history and you had some pretty nasty things to say about a woman on here. Calling her the village bike and a fleshlight and saying she's never had a loving relationship.

I have said nasty shit about men too. Women are people, stop putting them on a pedestal as somehow above reproach.

In the case you are referring to, I said nothing untrue. She did act the village bike, tried essentially the childish approach to romance you suggested and ended up being used like a living sex doll by assholes and wondered why she was forever alone. Rather than admit her error she was convinced that it was men's fault that she refused to have any standards. Just as respectable women don't like men who have no standards, respectable men don't get involved with women who have no standards. Nothing I said was untrue, you are just sad that what I said wasn't kind. As above, that's the approach of a child.

You’re a gem

I feel this is building into a threesome.

There's an old expression "don't shit where you eat" which can mean a lot of things but usually is used to mean don't have romantic relationships in the office. Even letting your gf meet alone with your coworker was a bad idea. Now it's off the rails. Out of your control. Hopefully the only thing that crashes is your relationship, and it doesn't take your job down with it.

Lesson learned, hopefully.

Facts like he said “fantasy” and she’s trying to make it a reality in order to “let him know how it feels”

Dude my crazy ex did that whole “I’ll decide when to see you” type shit granted I knew she was trying to manipulate me the whole time but I’d suggest you run.

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Wtf. I'm curious how that goes over with your Dr. Also did you notice right away. (Mid session pain) or what? You dont have to answer but I am curious as I didn't know this was a thing either

Sounds like she's being a dick about it, shes being super insecure and shes manipulating you. Get rid and get out of that. Sounds mentally unhealthy for you, thats not normal behaviour (hers) ⛳

Yeah she spun it the wrong way and is now basically saying she wants to do your fantasy with someone else and admitting she’s potentially wanting to cheat on you. She’s being manipulative and childish. These are some heavy red flags.

This

Yeah but then they don't know his real account.