Yeah you didn’t fuck up, your girlfriend did. Your fantasy is pretty basic and harmless. She sounds incredibly insecure. As a woman, if my bf said that I’d be like how do we make that happen like right now.

You two need to have a serious conversation and what her end goal is. If it’s still stressing you out, time to think about if you want to live with that.

She's gone straight up evil bro.

Tell her the following: keep seeing the news reporter girl. I was never into her. But you are and I dont care to share my partner. So you're off the hook. Do whatever. Just don't get me involved, dont ralk to me ever again and good luck in your life.

Smth like that. Break up.

Also talk to your co worker. Talk to her and ask her what happened. You need to make peace with your coworker cuz shes the one youre gonna be seeing daily even when you dump your bitch ass evil psycho manipulative should-be ex

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My advice: roll with this. At worst you lose a girlfriend… but I’ve kinda been through something like this, and my guess is that while what’s brewing is not all about you, they have something VERY pleasant in store for you. Can you get your selfish insecurities out of the way, and let life come to you?

Red flag, bail out now. Your GF obviously has major trust issues and is sociopathic.

Leave her stuff at the door, and dont look back. In Argentina we use the phrase: “sali de ahi maravilla” meaning get out of that situation. If you have strong feelings about you gf: Get out of there as soon as possible, try to avoid stretching it, you will only make healing more hard on you, your gf seems to enjoy playing with your mind and she knows how you are feeling, given she wants to keep going says she is a manipulative person.

Seems more like she is just messing with him and he is taking it too deep.

Also, I am in a really healthy relationship. We live together, barely ever fight, and communicate without issue or concerns of each others behavior.

If my girlfriend did this, I would sit down and discuss my issue instead of taking to reddit to get opinions on my relationship from 3 paragraphs worth of insight.

Sorry, I’m still reeling over the fact that she MET UP WITH YOUR COLLEAGUE after this convo. There was no guarantee your coworker would receive that well and in fact there’s a greater chance she wouldn’t have and would’ve felt really uncomfortable.

Dump her ass. That’s unhinged.

Edited to clarify that it wasn’t their first meeting.

you know what i did when my friends were doing the same to me? i got new friends lol. take your time and live your life

Wonder what she would have done if your fantasy was to make it rain on her, golden style.

That's fine.

I don't understand why anyone would want to be alone and volunteer for a Darwin award... But you do you.

Wtf you didn't fuck up at all. IMO that's kinda toxic and manipulative

Break up

Wisdom

Run my friend run. This is either the origin story of a manipulator or she already was one and u never realized

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Obviously he is going to choose the 'restrain you to the bed' option

Hopefully

Curious about outcome

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Time to get a new girlfriend

How do you call the action of someone you were supposed to trust and love going behind your back to talk to a coworker to humiliate you and make you feel bad because their expectations of you weren't true? If you see relationships like this and think It's normal i'm really sorry for you because It migth mean you Haven't had a healthy one yet

I dont know. But for a moment I felt I was reading a fic. Maybe we will see an update in a few days.

Break up with her NOW!

You should be really glad you found about the way she acts and tries to manipulate you now. Unfortunately I predict counseling or a new girl friend in your future. You have to assume she told your co-worker the whole deal and added some unknown stuff to it. If she doesnt want to go to counseling I agree with the other poster RUN!!! And maybe looking for another job as well.