Recent comments in /f/tifu

quicalluc t1_ix14e87 wrote

Sounds like Felix isn’t the only manipulator in the situation. You shouldn’t intervene, girls don’t like to feel controlled, nor do they like for guys to keep trying to pursue something with them after they’ve said no. Let her make her own choices. Try to figure out if your dislike of Felix is coming from real concern or jealousy. If he’s really a bad guy, hopefully she will break up with him, but your opinion on the relationship will probably just make her annoyed with you at this point. Talk to her friends to try to see how they feel about Felix, if they also think he’s a dick they can talk to her themselves. Do some self-reflection and change your attitude if you ever want a chance. Otherwise you’re just as bad as him.

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wyrdough t1_ix122fb wrote

Sure, it's that easy if the loop is actually at the switch or rack of switches. If it's some random place out in the building or worse a particular PC happens to have multiple network cards plugged into separate ports and someone inadvertantly enabled bridging on them, it can be a lot harder to find.

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mrssuga_7 t1_ix0ypyw wrote

You aunt should've waited after knocking. There's a reason to why knocking-culture exist. She saw what she needs to see and that's on her cause room is literally a private space.

At least be glad you don't gotta think of a way to explain your family about the relationship :) Hope things get better for you!

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ka1lu t1_ix0yarh wrote

I'm as confused as you are. I'm straight, however, have experimented.... I even know what LGBTQ stands for....even the IA+. I can't even wrap up my head around them saying that you're not included in it....

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LurksAroundHere t1_ix0wj4v wrote

Me neither! One time my cousin had a hot chocolate in college and told me how she had to run to the bathroom during an exam because of it and all of a sudden my middle school years suddenly clicked. I didn't realize I was drinking the devil's mix all that time haha

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harleyspoison267 t1_ix0rgij wrote

Both during HS and when I moved back in temporarily as an adult after an injury, my mother would knock on the door as she was opening it. She had the gall to complain a time or two about me being naked (i like to sleep naked and big boobs make finding lounge clothes difficult). I told her I WOULD be clothed if i was expecting COMPANY! My lil sib says she still pull this shit now. So ridiculous.

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qwertyuiopasdyeet t1_ix0rd87 wrote

I don’t see that as misogyny. Poor wording perhaps, but especially in highschool a lot of girls (who are not yet women) act really horribly. I have trust issues in no small part because of people like this. There are a lot of really horrible people out there and that is just a truth. I would not use the type of language as “bitch queens”, just sounds weird and immature, but I definitely know what he means….

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MyLifeisTangled t1_ix0owfh wrote

Hey, fellow bisexual chick here. Your gf is straight up wrong. As others have mentioned, the B in LGBT is for bisexual. We absolutely ARE part of the community. That’s as dumb as saying “if you’re a trans girl who likes men then you’re not LGBT bc you’re not gay.” Homosexuals are not the only people who are LGBT. If you experience same-sex attraction, you are gay. It’s a bit of an umbrella term that includes homosexuals, bisexuals, pansexuals, that kind of thing. You are gay. Bi is LGBT. You can dance all you want. Show your gf this thread and let them see they’re wrong. Then keep dancing

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