>I agree, NE should have caught this pretty quick, it’s usually an easy thing to rule out for sudden unexplained widespread pocket loss.

Yep. It was literally one of the practical parts of my CCNA exam.

Your are absolutely part of the LGBTQIA+ it's literally what the B stands for. Well, done for not letting them erase you, it's such bs xx

I know. If the date in my title didn't tell you how old I am, that sure gave it away.

To be blunt, you are the walking red flags person here.

There's no such thing as the friend zone, because you're not entitled to more than being a girls friend. If you can't handle being her friend that's fine, slowly disengage the relationship. Don't throw a tantrum and pull an ultimatum. Remember she doesn't owe you anything, so you're lucky to be her friend. But you have decimated and betrayed that friendship.

Secondly, Felix is allowed to be confident.

Thirdly you had no right to intervene in their relationship in such a deceptive and manipulative way.

You have a lot of work to do on yourself. What you did is unacceptable. Try and learn/grow from it.

I didn't shed a fucking tear when they went under. I went home the day the news hit the newspapers and told my wife about it. "Hey /u/griffingrl, remember, the shitty company that fired me last year? Fucking lol."

>Oops.

>I was legit fucking around.

Fucking gold. You made me laugh, so thanks. :)

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But a phobia is an irrational fear. Isn't the right phrase "she sees bi as lesser"?

I used to actually live at my grandfather's. As in, it was my actual home for awhile. I still wouldn't go back to my old room there to sleep with my girlfriend at Christmas or whatever.

It means that the gf doesn’t see her as equal in the lgbtq+ community because bi people are “straight passing” or “not really a part of the lgbt+”

Did you not see it’s where she used to routinely stay? It’s not like it was a stranger’s house. Depending on how her family operates, her grandparents’ house may have been like a second home to her. It’s not unheard of for grandparents to play a parental role from time to time.

Fair enough, but I still think walking into a closed-door bedroom in someone else’s house is worse than having sex in the bedroom you used to routinely stay in at your grandparents’ house. Depending on the family situation, that may have been like a second home for OP.

So does OP lol.

She went off and started having sex at a family gathering in someone else’s house

I get that, and 100% why would they be having sex there, but then why knock at all? Like why knock on a bathroom door and not wait a couple second to see if someone’s in there

A lot of people on this post either didn't read it very well or are really weird about where they have sex.

It's literally not her house, there's no expectation of privacy during a family gathering at a place you don't live

I too once costed an airline in Colorado Springs a ton of money by basically breaking a latch that was very important so important the plane couldn’t fly. It was grounded the whole day so every flight was canceled. Two different repair crews had to be driven in. But at least mine was because I was legit fucking around. Oops.

It’s an airport in Austin Texas. Power went out for like a day and there was no backup. It’s an international airport too. So yeah. Shit was not fun. For people who had to fly anyway.

Anyway, joke is Texas’ shitty power grid.

Shit company with no redundant servers. Best they died

She's scared of bi people?

I think the person who decides to have sex in somebody else's house needs to worry about boundaries. Especially her grandparents.

I agree with you if OP was in her own home which she wasn't. She was at her grandparent's and was in the room she used to stay in. She was at somebody else's house during a family gathering. Aunt had no reason to assume she'd be having sex at the time because who does that at their grandparents' place?

Bruh cmon, how is it her fault not her aunt’s for knocking and not waiting!?